Groups & leagues
A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 202 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 25 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.
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202 groups across 25 cities
Tuesdays 7pm
Union Cafe, 782 N High St (Short North)
Weekly bar trivia, hosted by Blonde Vanity, at the Short North's big restaurant-bar. It doubles as a restaurant, so you can eat while you play.
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Wednesdays 10pm
Union Cafe, 782 N High St (Short North)
A midweek drag show in the Short North. If you'd rather start earlier on a weekend, Union's Sunday drag brunch is at 11am, with the show at noon.
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Thursdays 7pm
Slammers, 202 E Long St (Downtown)
Traditional trivia at Columbus's long-running lesbian bar, where everyone is welcome and the pizza is part of the draw. Wednesday at 7 is music trivia.
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Second Monday monthly, 7–9pm Monthly
Next: Mon, Nov 9
Stonewall Columbus, 1160 N High St (Short North)
A peer-led monthly book club for men of all orientations, with talk about gender, sexuality, relationships and LGBTQ+ life sparked by each month's book.
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Monthly on a Saturday, 10am–noon (not every month) Monthly
Parks and trails around Columbus
Stonewall Columbus's outdoor group: hikes, walks and other outings at a range of skill levels. Sign up through the center's form to hear where the next one meets.
Official site for Adventure Pride (Stonewall Columbus)
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Thursdays 6:30–8:30pm, in multi-week sessions (Oct–Nov 2026 session now running)
Columbus (the room is on each session's listing)
A ballroom class run by Stonewall Columbus in sessions of several weeks. No partner or experience needed; sign up for the next session on the center's calendar.
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Tuesdays 6:30pm and Saturdays 9am, year-round, rain or shine
Lakefront Trail at the Totem Pole (Addison St & Lake Shore Dr), just south of the Waveland tennis courts
A friendly LGBTQ+ run and walk club. Walkers usually do 1–2 miles and runners 3–5, so it's a good fit for total beginners.
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Third Tuesday of each month, 7–9pm (holidays can shift the date) Monthly
Next: Tue, Nov 17
Center on Halsted, 3656 N Halsted St (Lakeview/Northalsted)
Chicago's longest-running gay men's book group. It's free and open to all ages, and it reads gay-themed fiction and nonfiction. Drop in for one book or come every month.
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Wednesday rehearsals 7:30–10pm during the season; joining requires an audition
Windy City Performing Arts, Lakeview (office at 3656 N Halsted St)
A tenor/bass chorus and one of the oldest LGBTQ+ choruses in the US, with holiday, spring and summer concerts. Auditions are welcoming, and you don't need to be a pro.
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Coached practices most weekday evenings plus Saturday mornings, at Gill Park and Sheridan Park
Gill Park (Lakeview) and Sheridan Park
An LGBTQ+ Masters swim team for everyone from returning lap swimmers to competitors. The coaching is friendly, and there's a lively social side.
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Friday nights, September through April
Waveland Bowl, 3700 N Western Ave
The city's biggest LGBTQ+ bowling league, with 200+ bowlers on 5-person teams. It's social and relaxed, and newcomers and free agents are welcome.
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Third Sunday of each month, 2pm Monthly
Next: Sun, Nov 15
Eli Tea Bar, 5507 N Clark St (Andersonville)
A casual, unstructured hangout for LGBTQIA+ folks who are sober or sober-curious. It's a social group, not a recovery program, so you can just come for tea and conversation.
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Start with an in-person volunteer orientation (held roughly quarterly), then pick shifts
Center on Halsted, 3656 N Halsted St
Help at Chicago's LGBTQ+ community center, from events to programs. A good way to meet people while giving back. Ages 18+, background check required.
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Weekend drag brunches with themes that rotate weekly; reservations recommended
Kit Kat Lounge & Supper Club, 3524 N Halsted St (Northalsted)
A sit-down brunch with full drag shows and a different theme most weekends. Fun for groups, birthdays, or showing visiting friends around.
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Indoor league runs year-round; summer beach league plays Monday evenings at Montrose Beach (Jun–Aug)
Indoor gyms citywide; Montrose Beach in summer
An LGBTQ+ volleyball league with divisions for many skill levels. Sign up with a team or as a free agent.
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Wednesdays 7–11pm
Charlie's, 3726 N Broadway (Lakeview)
The Second City Country Dance Association's weekly night of line dancing and two-step at Chicago's country gay bar. Come to learn the steps; a dollar from every Jack Daniel's cocktail goes to the club.
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Tuesdays 7:30–9:30pm
Meeting House Tavern, 5025 N Clark St (Andersonville)
A weekly drag-hosted trivia night in Andersonville, as much about the banter as the answers. Bring a crew or come early and find one.
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Tue & Thu 7pm; Tuesday runs start at Union Station from late Sept to mid-April
23rd & P Streets NW (Dupont/West End)
Non-competitive 3, 4 or 6-mile group runs at your own pace. Visitors are always welcome, and you just sign a guest waiver online first.
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Saturdays 10am (9am in Jun–Aug); run or 3–4 mile walk
23rd & P Streets NW
The weekend meetup has both a run and an organized walk, so nobody walks alone. A friendly start if you're new to DC.
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Sundays 12–1pm
Spark Social, 2009 14th St NW (U Street)
A free, easygoing LGBTQ+ coffee meetup. Ask for the Go Gay DC table and pay for your own drinks. Good for meeting people without a bar scene.
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Saturdays 11am
Freddie's Beach Bar & Restaurant (Crystal City, Arlington)
A free weekly brunch meetup for the DMV's LGBTQ+ community and allies. You just show up, order, and talk to people.
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Saturdays & Sundays, seatings from 11am
Nellie's Sports Bar, 900 U St NW (U Street)
DC's best-known weekly drag brunch, with performances and midday cocktails. Reservations recommended.
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Fourth Monday monthly, online via Zoom (email the Center for the link) Monthly
Next: Mon, Oct 26
Online (Zoom)
A monthly discussion of queer books by queer authors, run by the DC Center. It's virtual, so it's an easy one to try from home.
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Meetings every day, e.g. Sun 11am & Mon 7:15pm gay/lesbian open AA; full list on site
1638 R St NW #120 (Dupont Circle)
DC's LGBTQ+ recovery clubhouse since 1990, hosting 35+ AA, CMA and other 12-step meetings a week. Open meetings welcome anyone curious about sobriety.
Official site for The Triangle Club (LGBTQ+ 12-step meetings)
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Up to 7 practices a week (weekday evenings + weekends); see club calendar
Gallaudet, Takoma & Deanwood aquatic centers
DC's LGBTQ+ masters swim team. Come to as many or as few practices as you like, and scholarships are available.
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Rehearsals Sundays 6–9pm; 2026–27 auditions closed, next round summer 2027
Dupont Circle area
A nationally known chorus with a dance ensemble. Catch a concert this season, or plan to audition next summer.
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Thursdays 7–9pm
National City Christian Church, 5 Thomas Circle NW (entrance to the right of the church on 14th St)
DC's LGBTQ+ square dance club, dancing every Thursday near McPherson Square. Non-members pay $12 a night, and new dancers start with the club's yearly class (this year's began in August).
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Hikes most weekends, plus bike rides, urban walks and trips; posted on Meetup
Trails around DC, Maryland, Virginia and West Virginia (Rock Creek Park, the C&O Canal, Shenandoah)
DC's LGBTQ+ outdoors club. Every fitness level is welcome, trip leaders set up carpools, and there's no membership fee, just a $5 trip fee plus your share of gas if you ride along. Seasonal socials and a pancake breakfast make it easy to meet people off the trail too.
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Thursdays and Sundays 9–11pm, no cover
Canvas, 1105 Fatherland St (East Nashville)
Two nights a week of karaoke and line dancing at the East Nashville cocktail bar, with no cover. Come for the dancing, stay for a song.
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Thursdays 7pm
The Lipstick Lounge, 1400 Woodland St (East Nashville)
Thursday drag bingo at the long-running East Nashville bar, where there's also karaoke every night.
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Wednesdays 7:30–9:30pm
The Lipstick Lounge, 1400 Woodland St (East Nashville)
A weekly quiz night with a drag host at East Nashville's long-running neighborhood bar. Bring a team or join one.
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Thursdays 8pm–midnight
Tribe, 1515 Church St (Midtown)
Musical bingo every Thursday: name the song, mark the card. A low-pressure way to spend a weeknight on Church Street.
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Seasonal leagues (kickball, sand and grass volleyball, cornhole); days vary by league
Parks and courts around Nashville
An LGBTQ+ social sports league that started in Nashville and has spread to other cities. Pick a sport, sign up on your own or with friends, and get placed on a team.
Official site for HotMess Sports Nashville
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Mondays 7–10pm
Second Presbyterian Church, 4501 Westminster Place (Central West End)
St. Louis's gay men's chorus, open to singers 18 and up in the tenor and bass range, with three big concerts a year in December, March and June. Its 40th season is in 2027, and scholarships help with the dues.
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Rehearsal days vary by season; ask the chorale. Holiday concerts Dec 11–12 2026
Concerts at St. Paul United Church of Christ, 3510 Giles Ave (Dutchtown)
An all-gender LGBTQ+ chorus, founded in 2018, where your voice part depends on your voice, not your gender. Its 2026 holiday show, A Not-So-Silent Night, celebrates LGBTQ+ history and holiday music.
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Wednesdays 6pm
Roman Pavilion, Tower Grove Park
A weekly 3.3-mile loop of Tower Grove Park, run or walk at whatever pace suits you, then a cooldown at Good Neighbor on Morganford. Run by Team Saint Louis, the city's LGBTQ+ sports club.
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Sundays 12–3pm, fall season Oct 4–Dec 6 2026
Club 65, 9270A Watson Rd
An eight-week LGBTQ+ pickleball league with intermediate and advanced divisions. Bring a partner or sign up on your own and they'll try to pair you with someone.
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Saturdays 8am
Tower Grove Park, between the Piper Palm House and the Lily Pond
A free, easy 1.5-mile walk on a paved loop, about 20 to 40 minutes, and nobody gets left behind. It centers LGBTQ+ people, especially trans and gender-nonconforming folks, and friends, kids and dogs are welcome.
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Sundays 5–7pm; location on the Meetup listing
St. Louis (location shared on Meetup)
A weekly potluck dinner from the STL LGBTQ+ MeetUp, a low-pressure way to meet people if you're new in town or newly out. The same group runs drag karaoke and other meetups through the month.
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Saturdays 9:40am
Lloyd Hall, 1 Boathouse Row (Kelly Drive)
Running since 1983 and open to all paces. You choose your own distance on the Schuylkill River Trail, walkers are welcome, and most people head to brunch at Little Pete's afterwards. It's free.
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First Monday monthly, 6–8pm Monthly
Next: Mon, Nov 2
St. Luke & The Epiphany, 330 S 13th St (Gayborhood)
A low-stakes night of board games, cards and trivia run by the William Way LGBT Center. Bring a favorite game if you like. 18+.
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Third Monday monthly, 6–8pm Monthly
Next: Mon, Nov 16
William Way LGBT Community Center programs (Gayborhood)
A queer open mic for poetry, music, drag, comedy and storytelling. Come to perform or just to cheer people on.
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Fourth Monday monthly, 6–8pm Monthly
Next: Mon, Oct 26
St. Luke & The Epiphany, 330 S 13th St (Gayborhood)
A relaxed craft night with a different project each month, like tie-dye or bag charms. No skills needed. 18+.
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Tue–Sun 8:30–9:30pm
Church of the Holy Trinity basement, 1904 Walnut St (Rittenhouse)
A long-running LGBTQ+ recovery meeting held six nights a week. The same space also hosts a 10:30pm 'Night Owl' meeting and Crystal Meth Anonymous at 7:15pm.
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One Saturday a month, Sept–June; ticketed Monthly
Congregation Rodeph Shalom, 615 N Broad St
Philly's legendary drag-hosted charity bingo, now 30 years old and raising money for HIV support (Action Wellness). Expect a loud, glittery, joyful crowd. The 2026–27 season continues with a new host.
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Sundays, doors noon, show 1–4pm
Fabrika, 1108 Frankford Ave (Fishtown)
A dinner-theater drag brunch with a rotating cast, hosted by Eric Jaffe. Reserve ahead.
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Weekly rehearsals in season; auditions each August and December
Philadelphia
A 40-plus-year-old chorus with mainstage concerts every year. A great way to make friends if you love to sing, or go see a show.
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Mondays 7:30–9:30pm; Wednesdays 7:30–9:30pm
Lanier Playground, 29th & Tasker (Grays Ferry)
An inclusive rugby club in International Gay Rugby that welcomes every athlete, including people who've never played. You can join any time, and there are Rugby 101 sessions for beginners.
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Mondays 6:30–8:30pm
Chew Playground, 1800 Washington Ave (Graduate Hospital)
Philadelphia's LGBTQIA+ soccer club, in its 36th year and open to every skill level. Weekly pickup is free, and you can try a session before joining. The club also runs leagues and the Liberty Bell Classic tournament.
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Saturdays 8:45–9:45am
CAMP Rehoboth, 37 Baltimore Ave
A Saturday-morning yoga class for men at the town's LGBTQ+ community center, a block from the boardwalk. Check the center's calendar for holiday weeks.
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Last Monday of the month, 5:30pm Monthly
Next: Mon, Oct 26
CAMP Rehoboth, 37 Baltimore Ave
A monthly book club at the community center, an easy way to meet people in town outside the bars.
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1st & 3rd Mondays, 6–7:30pm Twice a month
Next: Mon, Nov 2
CAMP Rehoboth, 37 Baltimore Ave
A new peer-led talk group for gay men and others who identify with the masculine spirit, run with Delaware Coastal Beach Buddies. Each meeting picks a topic, from friendship to life changes, and you can share or just listen.
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Every other Monday, 6:30–7:30pm
Panera Bread on Coastal Highway
A CAMP Rehoboth group for knitting and other fiber crafts. Bring your project, show off finished work and swap tips; all levels are welcome.
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Saturdays 9am
John Howell Park, 797 Virginia Ave NE (Virginia-Highland)
Open to every pace and ability, with 3–6 mile routes through Midtown neighborhoods. A friendly way to start the weekend.
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Wednesdays 6:30pm; last Wednesday monthly is a brewery 'beer run'
John Howell Park (Virginia-Highland)
A midweek group run with a social monthly beer run. Weather cancellations are posted on Instagram and Facebook.
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Thursdays; free lessons 8–9pm (line dance & two-step alternate), then open dancing
The Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Rd NE
Free country dance lessons for beginners and regulars, taught by DanceOut Atlanta. No cover. Come for the lesson even if you don't stay late.
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Sundays, ~11:30am plus a later seating; reservations required
Lips Atlanta, 3011 Buford Hwy NE
A weekly drag brunch with a full show and bottomless mimosas. Fun for groups and celebrations.
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Multiple 12-step meetings daily, e.g. Wed 8pm LGBTQ+ AA discussion
585 Dutch Valley Rd NE (Morningside/Ansley)
Atlanta's LGBTQ-affirming recovery clubhouse, hosting AA, Al-Anon and other meetings plus sober fellowship. Every group meeting there must explicitly welcome LGBTQ people.
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Tue 7am & 7:30pm, Wed/Thu 7:30pm, Sun 10:30am; free trial available
McAuley Aquatic Center, Georgia Tech (Midtown)
Atlanta's gay-friendly masters swim, water polo and tri club. Ask for a free trial practice. You just need to be able to swim freestyle.
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Rehearsals weekly in season; see Voices of Note for auditions & concerts
Atlanta
A 150-voice chorus with playful, ambitious concerts. Recent shows include Pub AGMC and an Elton John Pride concert in 2026.
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Hikes and outings posted on the website; mostly weekends
Atlanta & North Georgia
An outdoor club for gay and bisexual men, running scenic hikes, BeltLine cleanups and the occasional adventure like hot-air ballooning. Membership is $20 a year.
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Hikes posted on Meetup, typically weekends
Trails in and around Atlanta
A free Meetup group exploring local trails like Island Ford. Easy to join as a newcomer to the city.
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Thursdays 6–9pm
Felix's, 1510 Piedmont Ave NE (Ansley Square)
A weekly, no-cover mahjong league at a Midtown-area gay bar, with lessons in Chinese mahjong for beginners. Free parking, and you don't need to bring a set or a partner.
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Fourth Saturday monthly, 10–11:30am (on Zoom; register first) Monthly
Next: Sat, Oct 24
Online (Zoom), hosted by Charis Books & More, 184 S Candler St, Decatur
A monthly LGBTQ+ book club run by Charis Books & More in Decatur. It meets on Zoom, so it's an easy one to try from anywhere in metro Atlanta; October's pick was Anno Dracula.
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Saturdays 10am (bag drop at Rutgers Church by 9:40am)
Central Park, across from the Daniel Webster Statue (Upper West Side)
The city's big LGBTQ+ running club. The Saturday run is the one they recommend for new runners and visitors, walkers come too, and there's a light breakfast social afterwards.
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Wednesdays 7pm
Central Park, across from the Daniel Webster Statue
Often the biggest group run of the week. Lots of people go out to dinner together afterwards, and everyone's welcome to join.
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Tuesdays 7pm; 2nd Tuesday meets at Pier 6, Brooklyn Bridge Park
Grand Army Plaza Arch, Prospect Park (Brooklyn)
A relaxed loop of Prospect Park followed by dinner at a different neighborhood restaurant each week. A good way to meet queer Brooklynites.
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Wednesdays 7–11pm
Playhouse, 100A 7th Ave S (West Village)
A weekly queer country night with line dancing and two-stepping. All skill levels are welcome, so it's a good one to try even if you've never danced before.
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Last Wednesday of the month, 6:30pm Monthly
Next: Wed, Oct 28
Brooklyn Pride Center, 1561 Bedford Ave (Crown Heights)
A monthly club reading gay fiction and nonfiction, with an eye on friendship as much as books. No registration needed, so you can drop in for any month's pick.
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Rehearsals Mondays 7–10pm; new members usually join in Jan or Sep after an audition
Chelsea
A big, warm chorus with a full concert season. You don't need formal training, but you do need to audition. Non-singers can join as associate members and help out behind the scenes.
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Saturdays & Sundays, 12–2pm
Laurie Beechman Theatre at West Bank Cafe, 407 W 42nd St (Hell's Kitchen)
A long-running NYC drag institution: a full drag show over bottomless brunch. Great for a birthday, a group of friends, or showing visitors a good time.
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Several practices a week across Manhattan, Brooklyn and the Bronx; book via the team's Fall 2026 schedule
Pools in Manhattan, Brooklyn & the Bronx
NYC's LGBTQ+ masters swim, water polo and artistic swimming team. There's adult learn-to-swim and a second-Tuesday water polo clinic for beginners, plus plenty of socials.
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Year-round open play, clinics and seasonal leagues; times vary by session, so register on the site
Gyms around Manhattan
A long-standing LGBTQ+ volleyball league with open play and training clinics alongside competitive divisions. Open to all adults 18+, so beginners can start at a clinic or open play.
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Thursdays 7–8:30pm
The LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St (West Village)
A weekly, in-person SMART Recovery meeting at the Center, open to anyone and with no registration. The Center hosts AA, NA, Recovery Dharma and other recovery meetings most days too, so check its calendar for one at a time that suits you.
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Thursdays 8–10pm
Phoenix Bar, 447 E 13th St (East Village)
Weekly trivia at a friendly East Village gay bar. Bring a team or ask to join one; Phoenix also runs bingo on Saturdays at 6pm.
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Shifts most weekdays, e.g. early-morning meal packaging or midday deliveries by car; days vary, book online
Manhattan (office at 166 Avenue of the Americas) and routes across the five boroughs
Started in 1985 to bring meals to New Yorkers with AIDS, it now cooks and delivers for people with serious illnesses all over the city. Volunteering is a sociable way to give a few hours, and you book your own shifts.
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At least one hike a month, usually a Saturday; trips posted on Meetup
Hudson Valley and Harriman State Park trails by train (meet at Grand Central or Penn Station)
Day hikes for gay men that you can reach by train, like Cold Spring to Beacon, Anthony's Nose and Harriman loops. The city crowd rides up together, drivers meet at the trailhead, and there's a camping weekend on Fire Island every summer.
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1st Thursday of the month, 7–9pm (other gyms on other nights) Monthly
Next: Thu, Nov 5
Bouldering Project, 1433 West River Rd N, Minneapolis
OutClimb makes climbing easier to get into for trans and queer people: free, beginner-friendly meetups at most Twin Cities gyms, plus outdoor trips and mentoring. The Minneapolis Bouldering Project meetup is on the first Thursday, and other gyms host on other nights, so check the calendar. First-timers get a free day pass there; after that it's $12 plus tax, shoes included.
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Wednesdays; doors 4pm, bingo from about 6–6:30pm
LUSH Lounge & Theater, 990 Central Ave NE (Northeast)
Weekly drag bingo with a different artist or genre as the theme each week, and proceeds go to the Aliveness Project. Reserve a seat online. There's a Saturday afternoon bingo too.
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Rehearsals Tuesdays 7–9:30pm; next audition Dec 8 2026
Hennepin Avenue United Methodist Church, 511 Groveland Ave (Loring Park)
One of the country's biggest gay men's choruses, with more than 160 voices on stage at Orchestra Hall. Singers rehearse every Tuesday and join through auditions a few times a year. Or just go: Slay Bells Ring is at Orchestra Hall on Nov 22.
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Tuesdays 6:30–8:30pm; Thursdays 6:30–8:30pm (outdoor season Apr–Oct; fitness sessions in winter)
Lions Park, 151 Louisiana Ave N (Golden Valley)
A rugby club started to get more gay and bi men and trans people playing, open to anyone of any age, gender or sexuality. No experience needed: come to any practice, and the coaches will help you sort out gear.
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Sundays 6:30–10pm (lessons from 6:30, two-step at 7, open dancing 7:30–10); plus a monthly Saturday Stampede
Eagles Club #34, 2507 E 25th St (Seward)
A country dance club for LGBTQ+ people and friends. Sundays start with lessons, including beginner two-step, and then the floor opens for social dancing. You don't need a partner or any experience, and cover is $8.
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2nd & 4th Saturdays, 6:30–9:30pm Twice a month
Next: Sat, Oct 24
Quatrefoil Library, 1220 E Lake St (Longfellow)
A twice-a-month Saturday game night at the Twin Cities' LGBTQ+ library. An easy way to meet people, and the library runs plenty of other clubs if you want a reason to come back.
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Second Wednesday monthly, 7–8pm (summer meetings at Brackett Park) Monthly
Next: Wed, Nov 11
Quatrefoil Library, 1220 E Lake St (Longfellow)
A monthly queer book club with a new read each time. Meetings are an hour, which makes it an easy first club, and in summer the group moves outdoors to Brackett Park.
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About one walk or hike a month, lately Sunday mornings; places vary
Around the metro (e.g. Lake Nokomis, Lebanon Hills in Eagan)
A big Meetup group (about 1,700 members) for queer people who like to walk and hike. Outings are a few miles at a relaxed pace, often with an optional lunch after, and a good way to see the lakes and parks.
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Sundays 1–5pm
Dreamers Vault Games, 1143 Larpenteur Ave W (Roseville)
A weekly open game afternoon for queer gamers at a Roseville game store. Bring a game or join one already going, from Ticket to Ride to Wingspan, and there are tables for drawing and hanging out too.
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Saturdays, gather by 10am, run ~10:15, year-round
Boston Public Garden, by the tall flagpole (Back Bay)
Boston's LGBTQ+ running club, going since 1979. Someone always runs with newcomers, and there's brunch afterwards.
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Mon 6:30pm Davis Sq (Somerville); Wed 6:30pm outside Stony Brook T (JP)
Davis Square, Somerville / Jamaica Plain
Casual after-work group runs. First-timers should check the club's Facebook group first, especially in winter.
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Third Thursday monthly, 7–10:30pm, no cover Monthly
Next: Thu, Nov 19
Jacques Cabaret Underground, 79 Broadway (Bay Village)
A free monthly country night. They teach line and partner dances along with a bit of LGBTQ+ country-western history, so you can show up with no experience.
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Third Sunday monthly, 10:30am Monthly
Next: Sun, Nov 15
All She Wrote Books, 75 Washington St (Somerville)
A free, low-pressure 'silent' book club. Bring whatever you're reading, read together, then chat if you feel like it. Easy for introverts, and seats are limited so RSVP.
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Weekly rehearsals during the season; join via audition (see site)
Boston
One of the country's best-known gay choruses, with a full 2026–27 season of concerts. Come to a show, or audition to sing.
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Trips posted on Meetup; mostly weekend hikes and day trips
Greater Boston & New England
New England's LGBTQ+ outdoor club since 1978. Trips range from easy 2-mile walks to White Mountains backpacking, and non-members are welcome on most of them.
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Tue 7pm, Wed/Thu 7:15pm, Sat 9:30am, Sun 11am
BCYF Mason Pool (Roxbury) & South End Fitness Center
Boston's LGBTQ+ masters swim team, with coached workouts and a friendly crowd. Confirm practice times with the team before your first swim.
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A couple of Sundays a month, show ~1–3pm; ticketed and often sells out Monthly
Club Café, 209 Columbus Ave (South End)
A South End institution's ticketed drag brunch. Book ahead, since it often sells out about a month early.
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Mondays 7–10pm
Club Café, 209 Columbus Ave (South End)
A Monday night of bingo rounds, drag numbers and prizes, hosted by Mizery. The full dinner menu is available, so it works as a cheap weeknight out with friends.
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Sundays (time and field on the club's emails); fall league Thursdays Sep–Nov at Roberts Playground, Dorchester
Roxbury / South End
Boston's LGBTQ+ soccer club recommends its relaxed Sunday practices as the way in for newcomers, at any skill level. There's also a social 7v7 fall league and indoor soccer in winter.
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Tuesdays 6:30–9:30pm, $10 class
Beanlandia, 3300 Royal St (Bywater)
Line dance classes for the LGBTQ+ community and friends, held in a coffee shop. Beginners are welcome.
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2nd & 4th Wednesdays, 7–9pm, $5 Twice a month
Next: Wed, Oct 28
The AllWays Lounge & Cabaret, 2240 St. Claude Ave (Marigny/St. Roch)
A queer line-dance night with instructor Jeez Loueez. Cheap, friendly, and good for total beginners.
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Saturdays & Sundays, 10am–3pm; reserve on OpenTable
The Country Club, 634 Louisa St (Bywater)
Weekend drag brunch at a Bywater restaurant-and-pool spot. A classic New Orleans gay brunch.
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Sundays 12–3pm
Marigny Brasserie, 640 Frenchmen St (Marigny)
A Sunday drag brunch hosted by Cosette LaFemme and Mistie Bonét, a short walk from Frenchmen Street's live music.
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Mondays 6pm; canceled in bad weather
Audubon Zoo, Magazine St entrance (Uptown)
A casual weekly walk through Audubon Park run by New Orleans Advocates for LGBTQ+ Elders. Gentle pace, all ages welcome.
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Every other Saturday, 10:30–11:30am, alternating in person (CrescentCare) and online
CrescentCare, 1631 Elysian Fields Ave (in-person weeks)
A moderated coffee-and-conversation group from NOAGE. Gentle and welcoming, especially for older LGBTQ+ folks.
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Every other Monday, 6:30–8:30pm
The Original Nite Cap, 1300 St. Bernard Ave (7th Ward)
Drop-in community singing that's open to beginners. No audition, just come sing with people.
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Second Friday monthly, 7pm Monthly
Next: Fri, Nov 13
The AllWays Lounge (Twilight Lounge), 2240 St. Claude Ave
A monthly queer storytelling show with funny, tender, true stories from local performers. Great for a low-key night out.
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Monthly on a Thursday, 6–8pm (Oct 15 2026); check the calendar for the next one Monthly
Resource Center Community Center, 5750 Cedar Springs Rd (Oak Lawn)
A monthly board and card game night for LGBTQ+ adults. Easy to join solo, since people pull up a chair at any table.
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Second Tuesday monthly, 7–9pm Monthly
Next: Tue, Nov 10
Resource Center Community Center, 5750 Cedar Springs Rd
A Spanish-language LGBTQ+ game night and potluck. Bring a dish if you like, and English speakers are welcome too.
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Third Saturday monthly, Jan–Nov; doors 5pm, games 6–9pm Monthly
Next: Sat, Nov 21
Station 4 (S4), Cedar Springs
Resource Center's campy drag-hosted bingo fundraiser, a Dallas institution. Great with a group of friends.
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Weekly rehearsals during the season; prospective singers use the 'Sing With Us' form
Offices at Sammons Center for the Arts, 3630 Harry Hines Blvd
Dallas's renowned gay men's chorus, now in its 46th season, with holiday concerts Dec 10–14, 2026. Sing with them or go see a show.
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Tuesdays 8–10pm, free partner and line-dance lessons; some Saturday afternoon sessions too
Round-Up Saloon, 3912 Cedar Springs Rd (Oak Lawn)
A queer line-dancing and two-step group whose classes are full of beginners in sneakers. A friendly way to learn before hitting a dance floor.
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Ongoing; sign up for shifts through Resource Center
Resource Center, Oak Lawn
North Texas's LGBTQ+ community center relies on 1,200+ volunteers for its food pantry, events and more. A meaningful way to meet people.
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Saturdays 7:30am; 3, 4 or 6 miles
Galleria Mall, behind Bank of America, west end (Fort Lauderdale)
An LGBTQ+ run/walk club for all abilities. Choose your distance and beat the heat early.
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Wed 7pm Holiday Park (Fort Lauderdale); Sun 6pm Pride Center (Wilton Manors)
Holiday Park / Pride Center at Equality Park
Evening group runs and walks. The Wednesday run is often followed by a social, and runners of every level come out.
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Tuesdays 10am–noon, free
Schubert Hall, Pride Center at Equality Park (Wilton Manors)
A free weekly coffee hour at South Florida's big LGBTQ+ center. Especially popular with older guys and anyone new to town.
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Tue & Thu 6:30–8pm, Sat 10am–noon; first two practices free
Charles Hadley Park Pool, 4800 NW 12th Ave (Miami)
Miami's LGBTQ-friendly masters swim team, now in its 30th year. Swimmers are grouped by speed with coached workouts, so you just need to be able to swim laps of freestyle.
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Saturdays & Sundays, seatings 11:30am & 2:30pm
R House, 2727 NW 2nd Ave (Wynwood)
Miami's signature drag brunch, with performances all through the meal and bottomless options. Book ahead on weekends.
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Daily meetings, e.g. Sun 10am, 12:15pm & 7pm open AA; CMA Mon & Fri 7pm
1231-A E Las Olas Blvd (Fort Lauderdale)
A long-running LGBTQ+ recovery clubhouse with AA and CMA meetings throughout the week. Open meetings welcome anyone exploring sobriety.
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Seasonal leagues year-round (volleyball Tue/Thu/Sun evenings, plus kickball, pickleball, soccer)
Mickel Park / Mills Pond Park (Wilton Manors & Fort Lauderdale)
South Florida's LGBTQ+ multi-sport league, with a beginner (B) division and free open-play nights before each season. 21+.
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Fall season Saturdays (Sept–Nov), mornings/early afternoons
Mills Pond Park & Wimberly Fields (Fort Lauderdale/Oakland Park)
LGBTQ+ 7v7 flag football. All skill levels are welcome, with free mini-camps for new players before each season and post-game parties in Wilton Manors.
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Weekly rehearsals in season; auditions held periodically (register first)
Fort Lauderdale / South Florida
A 180-plus-voice chorus with a busy concert season. Lower-voice singers 18+ can audition, or you can go hear them perform.
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Tuesdays 7pm at Hermann Park; Thursdays 7pm and Saturdays 8:30am at Memorial Park (3-mile runs)
Hermann Park (McGovern Centennial Gardens, Lot C) and Memorial Park (restrooms by the Tennis Center)
Houston's oldest LGBTQ+ run/walk group, founded in 1984. It's free and all levels are welcome, including couch-to-5K beginners.
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Meets about monthly, often Saturday afternoons (e.g. Aug 22 2026, 2–4pm)
Montrose/Downtown area (Aug 2026 meetup at 202 Tuam St)
A book club for queer folks and allies whose main goal is making local friends while reading more. Easygoing and social.
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Sundays 9:30–10:30am
The Montrose Center, 401 Branard St
A weekly community yoga class at Houston's LGBTQ+ center. An easy, gentle start to a Sunday.
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Sundays 8:30–11pm
The Montrose Center, 401 Branard St
Weekly practice for Houston's ballroom (vogue) scene. Come to learn, watch, or work on your walk.
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Saturdays 6:30–7:45pm (Oct 10 & 24 2026 listed; check the calendar)
The Montrose Center, 401 Branard St
A meditation-based recovery meeting for queer folks, built on Buddhist practice rather than the 12 steps. Welcoming to anyone exploring sobriety.
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Spring season (about 9 weeks) after a February draft party
Houston-area fields
Houston's LGBTQ+ softball league, running since 1980, for all skill levels. It's off-season in fall, so watch for the winter draft.
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Rehearsals Thursdays 7–10pm; season runs Sep–Jun
Houston (concerts at the Wortham Center and Discovery Green)
An LGBTQ+ affirming chorus for adult singers of all levels: you need to carry a tune, and auditions come up through the year. Season dues are $200, with scholarships. Hear them first at Green Christmas, Dec 19 at Discovery Green.
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Monthly on a Thursday, 6–9pm (Oct 8 and Nov 12 2026 listed) Monthly
The Montrose Center, Room 111, 401 Branard St (Montrose)
A peer group at the Montrose Center where gay Black men meet to connect, share what they're going through and build community, with open conversation and mutual support.
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Tuesdays & Thursdays 6pm; Saturdays 10am with brunch after
The Rock at Town Lake, north side of the MoPac pedestrian bridge (Lady Bird Lake)
LGBTQ+ runners and walkers looping Lady Bird Lake at every distance. No RSVP is needed, and there's dinner or brunch after.
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Weekly rehearsals during the season; holiday concert 'Only in the Love' Dec 4–6 2026
Concerts at First Austin Church
Austin's gay men's chorus, now in season 38. Join if you love to sing, or catch the December holiday shows.
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Several meetups a month (Reading Rainbow, Heartstopper club, cookbook club); days vary
The Little Gay Shop, 1902 E 12th St, plus partner spots like Pinthouse Brewing
Free drop-in queer book clubs run by The Little Gay Shop. Come as often or as rarely as you like.
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Monthly on a Sunday, 12–3pm; check the date Monthly
The Brewtorium
Austin Pride Foundation's monthly drag brunch, hosted by Miss Kelly Kline with rotating local queens. A fun, community-minded weekend outing.
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Classes and socials through the month; see the group's calendar
Various Austin venues
Queer-friendly classes in line dancing, two-step, country swing, salsa, bachata and more. Lead or follow regardless of gender, and beginners are accommodated.
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LGBTQ+-focused 12-step meetings each week; check the club's meeting schedule for days and times
Austin Galano Club
Recurring LGBTQ+-focused recovery meetings at Austin's long-time sober clubhouse. A supportive place if you're sober or thinking about it.
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Fall and spring seasons; fall 2026 games on Saturdays at 9am, 10:30am and noon
Austin fields (the Nov 7 2026 games are at BLACKS Rugby)
A gender-inclusive flag football league started in 2018 as a safe place for the LGBTQIA+ community to play. Players are 21 and up, and non-playing members still get a team and the league socials.
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Sunday mornings during the season; Texas Hoedown tournament Nov 7–8 2026
Krieg Fields
LGBTQ+ softball for players and allies, with divisions at different skill levels. Fall games are Sunday mornings, and the league hosts the Texas Hoedown tournament each fall.
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Monthly on a Wednesday, 7pm (Nov 11 and Dec 9 2026 listed) Monthly
Location shared with members on Meetup
A monthly book club for gay, bi, queer and trans men: talk about the book, then hang out. November's pick is Every Exit Brings You Home by Naeem Murr.
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Saturdays 9:15am at 9th Ave & Downing (coffee after); Tuesdays 6:30pm at North Sloan's Lake; Wed trail runs Apr–Sep
Dora Moore Elementary, 9th Ave & Downing St (Capitol Hill/Cheesman)
Denver's LGBTQ+ run and walk club for every pace. The Saturday run is the biggest and is followed by coffee at Buzz Cafe.
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Tuesdays 10am–noon, weekly
The Center on Colfax, 1301 E Colfax Ave
A weekly morning coffee chat for queer men, focused on conversation and friendship. Low-key and easy to walk into.
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Weekly, 7–8pm
The Center on Colfax, 1301 E Colfax Ave
A weekly sober social that opens with a low-key activity to break the ice. For anyone sober or sober-curious.
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Monthly, 5–7pm; date varies (Oct 13 2026)
The Center on Colfax, 1301 E Colfax Ave
A monthly game night with a rotating format, hosted by the Center's older-adult program and open to the community. Friendly and unhurried.
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Thursdays 10am–noon, drop-in
The Center on Colfax, 1301 E Colfax Ave
A free drop-in art session run by the Center's West of 50 program. You don't need any experience, just show up and make something.
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Spring and fall seasons; registration fills fast
Cranmer Park
One of the biggest LGBTQIA+ flag football leagues in the US (7-on-7, 300+ players). Spots go quickly, so sign up early.
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Fall indoor leagues under way (nights vary); members' skills clinics Sundays Oct 25 and Nov 8 2026, 5–7pm
Clinics at Dive Volleyball, 3899 Jackson St, Building 4
Denver's LGBTQ+ volleyball league, with draft and pick-your-own-team indoor leagues, grass in summer and a rating system so you play at your level. Members can add coached skills clinics for $25 each.
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Masters swim and water polo practices through the week; pool times have moved, so check the team's site
Denver and Lakewood pools
A queer masters swim and water polo club for adults 18 and up of any orientation or gender identity. Beginners are welcome, your first two practices are free, and drop-ins are $12 after that, with financial help available.
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1st & 4th Saturdays, 10:30am–12:30pm Twice a month
Next: Sat, Oct 24
The Center on Colfax, 1301 E Colfax Ave (Capitol Hill)
A themed book club at The Center: pick a book on the month's theme and tell the group about it, so nobody has to slog through a pick they don't like. A relaxed Saturday morning way to find new authors and meet people.
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Tuesdays 6:30–8:30pm
Utah Pride Center, 68 S Main St, 9th floor (Downtown)
A weekly, peer-led talk group for gay, bi and questioning men 18 and up, run by volunteer facilitators. No sign-up needed; come early to browse the center's LGBTQ+ history library and board games.
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Tuesdays 7–8pm
Utah Pride Center, 68 S Main St, 9th floor (Downtown)
A weekly Narcotics Anonymous meeting for LGBTQ+ adults 18 and up. Just show up; there's no registration.
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Wednesdays 12–1pm
Utah Pride Center, 68 S Main St, 9th floor (Downtown)
Bring your own lunch and talk with other gay men over the midday break. It's casual, for men 18 and up, and there's a TRAX stop right outside.
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Mondays 2–4pm
La Puente Restaurant (north room), 3205 S State St (South Salt Lake)
A weekly meal and chat, formerly called Silver Pride. It's especially welcoming to LGBTQIA+ seniors but open to everyone; drop in when you can and pay for your own food.
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Rehearsal days vary by season; ask the choir. Holiday concert in December
First Baptist Church, 777 S 1300 E (East side)
A choir that has sung in Salt Lake for more than 40 years. There's no audition: anyone 18 or older who sings tenor, baritone or bass can join, whatever their experience.
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Mondays and Tuesdays 6:30–10pm during the season
Steele Indian School Park and Margaret T. Hance Park volleyball courts
Phoenix's gay volleyball league plays outdoor league nights on two park courts, in Midtown and downtown. Leagues run in seasons, so check the site for the next sign-up; they're also looking for volunteers to help set up the courts.
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Rehearsals Tuesdays 7–9pm; auditions on Tuesdays in July and August
Parsons Center for Health & Wellness, 1101 N Central Ave (downtown)
A chorus in its 36th season, with a holiday concert and a season finale each year. New singers join through a 10-minute audition in July or August: a range check, some pitch matching and clapping rhythms, and the national anthem. Or just go to a concert.
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Thursdays 6–8pm; Saturdays 6–8pm
Charlie's Phoenix, 727 W Camelback Rd (Melrose)
Free country line dance lessons twice a week at Phoenix's longtime gay country bar, open to every level. Learn the steps early, meet the regulars, and stay once the floor fills up.
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Wednesdays 8–10pm
Thunderbird Lounge, 710 W Montecito Ave (Melrose)
Weekly bingo hosted by Barbra Seville, with DJ Trent between rounds and local prizes. A relaxed midweek night: bring friends, or come alone and join a table.
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Wednesdays 7–9pm
Stacy's at Melrose, 4343 N 7th Ave (Melrose)
Weekly trivia at a Melrose gay bar, hosted by Mickey Del Rio. Bring a team or join one there, then stay out on 7th Avenue.
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Sunday games during the season; the fall 2026 season began Sep 27
Phoenix-area fields
Slow-pitch softball for the LGBTQIA+ community around Phoenix, with two seasons a year and divisions for different skill levels. New players come in through skills days, and there are socials after games.
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Fall season on Friday evenings, games 6:45–10pm; the park can change
Phoenix-area park (check the league for this season's field)
Recreational flag football for Arizona's LGBTQ+ community, open to every skill level. Sign up on your own: registered players go into a draft pool and captains pick teams before the season.
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Second Tuesday monthly, 6:30–7:45pm Monthly
Next: Tue, Nov 10
Tempe Public Library, Desert Willow Program Room, 3500 S Rural Rd (Tempe)
An LGBTQIA+ book club run by the Tempe library. You can borrow the month's book with a Tempe library card, and you're welcome even if you didn't finish it.
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Thursdays 9:30pm, no cover
FLEX Cocktail Lounge, 501 E Twain Ave (near the Fruit Loop)
FLEX's weekly drag show, in a 24-hour neighborhood bar with no cover. Wednesday is karaoke if you'd rather sing yourself.
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Mondays 12:30–3pm
Badlands Saloon, 953 E Sahara Ave #22B (Commercial Center)
An afternoon bingo game at one of the city's longest-running gay bars, a 24-hour saloon well away from the Strip.
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Sundays 1–4pm rehearsals; open auditions three times a year, before the holiday, spring and summer concerts
Las Vegas
A men's chorus with three concert cycles a year; this season's holiday show, On With the Snow, is Dec 19–20. Open auditions kick off each cycle and are posted on the chorus's calendar.
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Spring and fall seasons; game days vary, so check the league's schedule after you register
Las Vegas-area ballfields
A slow-pitch league with recreational and competitive divisions and a big social side. New players can sign up for the fall season on the league's site.
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Monthly on a Sunday, 10am–1pm (arrive at the trailhead by 10:15) Monthly
Trailheads around Las Vegas (October 2026: Historic Railroad Tunnels trail)
Las Vegas PRIDE's monthly outdoor meetup for all ages. Each month's trail is on the PRIDE calendar.
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First Saturday monthly, 8–10pm Monthly
Next: Sat, Nov 7
The Phoenix
A monthly mixer hosted by the people behind Las Vegas PRIDE, an easy way to meet locals and the volunteers who run the city's Pride.
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Saturdays 8am
Veterans War Memorial Building, Zoo Dr & Park Blvd (Balboa Park)
San Diego's LGBTQ+ run and walk club. Saturday morning in Balboa Park is the main meetup, and walkers are part of the club, not an afterthought. The park's lots charge from 8am to 6pm through 2026, so arrive by bike or bus, or budget for parking.
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Tuesdays and Thursdays 6pm
6th Ave & Laurel St (Balboa Park, Bankers Hill side)
The club's after-work runs and walks on the west side of Balboa Park. Paid parking in the park ends at 6pm.
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Mondays and Wednesdays 7:30–9:30pm
Robb Field, 2525 Bacon St, Ocean Beach
An LGBTQ+ rugby union club where everyone is welcome and there are no tryouts. Most of its players had never played before joining, and you can practice for free before deciding whether to pay dues.
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Rehearsals Mondays 7–10pm (not on Monday holidays); new singers audition before a season
United Church of Christ, 3900 Cleveland Ave (Hillcrest)
A big chorus of gay, bi and queer men that rehearses every week and puts on full shows through the year. New singers come to an info night and a short audition, then commit to the season. Or just go to a show: Jingle 2026 is Dec 12–13 at the Magnolia in El Cajon.
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Sundays 9:45am (Kroc); Mondays 7:15pm (Coronado); Tuesdays 6pm (City Heights); Wednesdays 7pm (Kroc); Fridays 7pm (Kroc); Saturdays 10:30am (Coronado)
Kroc Center, 6753 University Ave (Rolando); Brian Bent Memorial Aquatics Complex, Coronado; City Heights Swim Center
An LGBTQIA+ masters swim club that has been in the water since 1985 and takes adult swimmers of every level. There are six coached practices a week, and people often get food together in Hillcrest afterwards. Some practices need you to register ahead.
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Wednesdays 6–7:30pm
San Diego LGBT Community Center, 3909 Centre St (Hillcrest)
A peer-led weekly group where GBT+ men of all ages talk about whatever's on their minds, personal or topical. It's a low-key way to make friends in a supportive room, and you can just show up.
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First Tuesday monthly, 6pm Monthly
Next: Tue, Nov 3
Mission Hills-Hillcrest/Knox Library, 215 W Washington St (Mission Hills)
A free library book club that reads a book with gay themes each month, mostly novels and memoirs. Past picks run from The Picture of Dorian Gray to Less. Parking under the library is free with validation.
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Several walks a month, daytime and evening; days vary
Around San Diego (recently Balboa Park, Liberty Station, Lake Miramar)
A relaxed walking group for gay, bi and trans men of all ages, in a different part of town each time. It's not about speed, and many walks end with lunch together. An easy first step if you're new in town.
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Several events a week (hikes, beach yoga, potlucks); days vary
Around San Diego (recently La Jolla, Pacific Beach, Sorrento Valley)
A big, long-running group for gay men that plans hikes, sunset yoga in PB, BBQs, bonfires and themed potlucks, with making friends as the whole point. Most events are free or cheap, and hike hosts post the route and difficulty ahead of time.
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Mondays 5–11pm
Urban MO's Bar & Grill, 308 University Ave (Hillcrest)
A weekly game night that fills the Hillcrest patio with board games, cards, video games, darts, ping pong and giant Jenga. Come with friends or come alone and join a table.
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Six weekly fun runs/walks: Tue/Wed/Thu evenings, Tue/Sat/Sun mornings; see site for meeting spots
Various; Griffith Park is a regular home base
LA's long-running LGBTQ+ run and walk club, celebrating 45 years. Every pace is welcome, and walkers are part of every outing.
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Monday night rehearsals during the season; auditions reopened Sep 2026
First Congregational Church of Los Angeles (Koreatown/Westlake)
One of the world's best-known gay choruses, with three big concerts a year. Joining requires an audition, and it's a big, welcoming community.
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Last Tuesday of each month, 6–7pm, in person and on Zoom Monthly
Next: Tue, Oct 27
West Hollywood Library, 625 N San Vicente Blvd
A free monthly discussion of LGBTQ+ books, with copies available to borrow from the library. Relaxed and easy to drop into.
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Several hikes and outings a month on varying days (e.g. evening moonlight hikes, weekday morning Griffith Park hikes)
Griffith Park and trails around LA, plus day trips
An all-volunteer LGBTQ+ outdoors club, founded in 1978, that runs free hikes (like moonlight hikes to the Hollywood Sign), camping and culture outings. It welcomes curious newbies as well as hardcore hikers.
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Coached Masters swim and water polo practices most weekday mornings/evenings plus weekends
West Hollywood Aquatic and Recreation Center; Echo Park Indoor Pool
A big LGBTQ+-founded Masters swim and water polo club with ex-Olympians and recreational swimmers in the same pool. Beginners are welcome.
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1st & 3rd Mondays and Thursdays, 8pm–midnight, with lessons at 8:30 and 10pm; check the venue for the night Twice a month
Next: Mon, Nov 2
Los Globos (3040 Sunset Blvd, Silver Lake) and The Paramount (2708 E Cesar Chavez Ave, Boyle Heights)
LA's beloved queer line-dancing party. Each night starts with lessons from teachers on stage, so total beginners pick it up fast. 21+.
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Start with the info session (4th Wednesday monthly, 6–7:30pm), then book shifts such as the Senior Pantry Monthly
Pride Hall, 1125 N McCadden Pl (Hollywood)
Volunteer at one of the world's largest LGBTQ+ centers. Roles range from food pantry shifts to events, and you only need to attend the info session first.
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Saturdays & Sundays 12–2pm (show starts at 1pm)
Beaches WeHo, 8928 Santa Monica Blvd (West Hollywood)
A pop-culture-themed drag show over California Cuban brunch, every weekend on the Santa Monica Boulevard strip. Book a table for a birthday or a group.
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Thursdays 7–9pm
Precinct, 357 S Broadway (Downtown LA)
Thursday-night trivia hosted by Queen Sheba, now four years running, with gift cards and merch as prizes. It finishes before the late party starts.
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Year-round: Monday Mini-Runs, Wednesday Night and Saturday Morning runs; Tuesday track Mar–Nov; trail run first Wednesday
Capitol Hill area (see club runs page for meeting spots)
An LGBTQIA+ running and walking club that welcomes walkers and all paces. Easy to try once with no commitment.
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Monday rehearsals 6:30pm during the season, plus one Saturday per concert cycle; auditions each September
Seattle First Baptist Church (First Hill)
One of the largest gay men's choruses in the country, performing a big holiday tour each December. Auditions are held each fall.
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Weekday and weekend Masters practices
Seattle University and other Seattle-area pools
An LGBTQ+ and allies Masters swim team that's also a social club. It welcomes swimmers who are just getting back in the water.
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Fridays, beginner lesson 7:15–8pm then social dancing; rooms and lessons change, so check Rain Country's newsletter or Instagram
Reverie Ballroom, 915 E Pine St (Capitol Hill)
A weekly queer country-western dance night from the Rain Country Dance Association, with two-step, West Coast swing, waltz and line dancing. The lesson is included in the $20 sliding-scale cover.
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Saturdays and Sundays, doors noon, show 1pm (themed Saturday runs; Bad Girls Brunch on Sundays)
Julia's on Broadway, 300 Broadway E (Capitol Hill)
Seattle's original drag brunch, with a full show and a meal. A classic weekend outing with friends.
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Regular season Sundays, April–June; winter field days help new players find teams
Seattle-area fields
Seattle's LGBTQIA+ and allied softball league, running for 45+ years, with divisions from casual to competitive. It's off-season in fall, so watch for winter sign-ups.
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Thursdays 7:30–9:30pm
Unicorn, 1118 E Pike St (Capitol Hill)
Free weekly pub trivia at Unicorn, a Capitol Hill queer bar. Bring a team or ask to join one.
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Mondays 7pm
CC Slaughters, 219 NW Davis St (Old Town)
Monday drag bingo at Portland's longest-running gay nightclub. An easy first night out in Old Town, and Darcelle XV and Badlands are a few blocks away.
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Thursdays 7–9pm
Badlands, 110 NW Broadway (Old Town)
Weekly bar trivia at the Old Town video bar. Bring a team or join one.
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Mondays 6:30–9:30pm rehearsals; auditions before each season (Season 47's were Aug 29, 2026)
Portland
One of the country's oldest gay men's choruses, now in its 47th season, with holiday and spring concerts. The next chance to join is the audition round before the following season.
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Hikes most weekends; dates and trailheads vary, posted on Meetup
Trails around Portland and the Columbia River Gorge
An outdoor group that started in 1986 when gay men and lesbians began hiking together on weekends, and is still going with thousands of members. Trailheads are shared with members once you join on Meetup.
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Saturdays 9am at Stow Lake Boathouse; Tuesdays 6:30pm from the Ferry Building; Thursdays 6:30pm from Noe & Market
Stow Lake Boathouse (Golden Gate Park) on Saturdays
The original Frontrunners club, founded in 1974. Groups range from casual walks to long runs, and there's coffee after on Saturdays. Very newcomer-friendly.
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Sundays 5–10:30pm (beginner two-step 5:30, line dance 6:30); Thursdays 6:30–10:30pm (two-step 6:45, line dance 7:30)
550 Barneveld Ave (Bayview)
The longest-running queer country-western dance night in the US. Beginner lessons are built into every night and you don't need a partner. $7, 21+.
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Third Tuesday of each month, 6–7:30pm, drop-in Monthly
Next: Tue, Nov 17
Main Library, 100 Larkin St, 3rd floor (Civic Center)
A free, drop-in LGBTQIA zine-making meetup with supplies on hand. Great for creative types and first-timers alike.
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Coached Masters swim (and artistic swimming) practices through the week; first drop-in is free
San Francisco pools (see club schedule)
An LGBTQ+ Masters swim club for every level, from competitive swimmers to people who just want a social workout. Your first practice is free.
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Weekly rehearsals during the season; joining requires an audition (auditions@sfgmc.org)
The Chan National Queer Arts Center
The world's first openly gay chorus. Sing with it if you audition in, or catch a concert; the 2026–27 season opens Oct 17, 2026. It also takes volunteers for concert nights.
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Open daily as a sober hangout, with meetings and fellowship
Castro
A sober community space for the LGBTQ+ recovery community, with coffee, games, meetings and friendly faces. A good bar alternative in the middle of the Castro.
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Second Wednesday of each month, 7pm Monthly
Next: Wed, Nov 11
Fabulosa Books (the Castro)
A friendly monthly book club at the Castro's queer bookstore. Just show up, no sign-up needed, and attendees get 10% off the month's pick if they ask.
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Tuesdays 7:30–10pm
The Detour, 2200A Market St (Castro)
Grab a table and a stack of games at the Castro's arcade bar; new players are welcome to join in. The third Tuesday also has a Connect 4 tournament and mixer.
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Schedules are as each group gives them: monthly groups meet once a month, twice-a-month ones in the weeks they name, and seasonal leagues only in season. Times change, so check the group's own site before you go. Something wrong, or a group we're missing? Post in Friends & Community. Nobody pays to be listed.