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A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 160 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 23 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.

Not sure how to start? Read How to make gay friends as an adult, then pick one thing here and go three times.

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Cities sorted by distance from Columbus (detected: Columbus, OH)

36 groups across 23 cities · Meets on a Saturday (4 not every week)

Drag

Bottomless Drag Brunch at Kit Kat Lounge

Weekend drag brunches with themes that rotate weekly; reservations recommended

Kit Kat Lounge & Supper Club, 3524 N Halsted St (Northalsted)

A sit-down brunch with full drag shows and a different theme most weekends. Fun for groups, birthdays, or showing visiting friends around.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Bottomless Drag Brunch at Kit Kat Lounge

Run club

Philadelphia Front Runners – Saturday Run/Walk

Saturdays 9:40am

Lloyd Hall, 1 Boathouse Row (Kelly Drive)

Running since 1983 and open to all paces. You choose your own distance on the Schuylkill River Trail, walkers are welcome, and most people head to brunch at Little Pete's afterwards. It's free.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Philadelphia Front Runners – Saturday Run/Walk

Game night

GayBINGO!

One Saturday a month, Sept–June; ticketed Monthly

Congregation Rodeph Shalom, 615 N Broad St

Philly's legendary drag-hosted charity bingo, now 30 years old and raising money for HIV support (Action Wellness). Expect a loud, glittery, joyful crowd. The 2026–27 season continues with a new host.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to GayBINGO!

Run club

Front Runners New York – Saturday Fun Run

Saturdays 10am (bag drop at Rutgers Church by 9:40am)

Central Park, across from the Daniel Webster Statue (Upper West Side)

The city's big LGBTQ+ running club. The Saturday run is the one they recommend for new runners and visitors, walkers come too, and there's a light breakfast social afterwards.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Front Runners New York – Saturday Fun Run

Swim team

Boston LANES (Liquid Assets New England Swimming)

Tue 7pm, Wed/Thu 7:15pm, Sat 9:30am, Sun 11am

BCYF Mason Pool (Roxbury) & South End Fitness Center

Boston's LGBTQ+ masters swim team, with coached workouts and a friendly crowd. Confirm practice times with the team before your first swim.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Boston LANES (Liquid Assets New England Swimming)

Coffee group

NOAGE Coffee Talk

Every other Saturday, 10:30–11:30am, alternating in person (CrescentCare) and online

CrescentCare, 1631 Elysian Fields Ave (in-person weeks)

A moderated coffee-and-conversation group from NOAGE. Gentle and welcoming, especially for older LGBTQ+ folks.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to NOAGE Coffee Talk

Sports

Austin Gay Flag Football League (ATXGFL)

Fall and spring seasons; fall 2026 games on Saturdays at 9am, 10:30am and noon

Austin fields (the Nov 7 2026 games are at BLACKS Rugby)

A gender-inclusive flag football league started in 2018 as a safe place for the LGBTQIA+ community to play. Players are 21 and up, and non-playing members still get a team and the league socials.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Austin Gay Flag Football League (ATXGFL)

Book club

LGBTQ+ Themed Book Club at The Center on Colfax

1st & 4th Saturdays, 10:30am–12:30pm Twice a month

Next: Sat, Oct 24

The Center on Colfax, 1301 E Colfax Ave (Capitol Hill)

A themed book club at The Center: pick a book on the month's theme and tell the group about it, so nobody has to slog through a pick they don't like. A relaxed Saturday morning way to find new authors and meet people.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to LGBTQ+ Themed Book Club at The Center on Colfax

Dance

Country Line Dancing at Charlie's Phoenix

Thursdays 6–8pm; Saturdays 6–8pm

Charlie's Phoenix, 727 W Camelback Rd (Melrose)

Free country line dance lessons twice a week at Phoenix's longtime gay country bar, open to every level. Learn the steps early, meet the regulars, and stay once the floor fills up.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Country Line Dancing at Charlie's Phoenix

Run club

Front Runners & Walkers San Diego – Saturday Run

Saturdays 8am

Veterans War Memorial Building, Zoo Dr & Park Blvd (Balboa Park)

San Diego's LGBTQ+ run and walk club. Saturday morning in Balboa Park is the main meetup, and walkers are part of the club, not an afterthought. The park's lots charge from 8am to 6pm through 2026, so arrive by bike or bus, or budget for parking.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Front Runners & Walkers San Diego – Saturday Run

Swim team

Different Strokes Swim Team (DSST)

Sundays 9:45am (Kroc); Mondays 7:15pm (Coronado); Tuesdays 6pm (City Heights); Wednesdays 7pm (Kroc); Fridays 7pm (Kroc); Saturdays 10:30am (Coronado)

Kroc Center, 6753 University Ave (Rolando); Brian Bent Memorial Aquatics Complex, Coronado; City Heights Swim Center

An LGBTQIA+ masters swim club that has been in the water since 1985 and takes adult swimmers of every level. There are six coached practices a week, and people often get food together in Hillcrest afterwards. Some practices need you to register ahead.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Different Strokes Swim Team (DSST)

Run club

San Francisco FrontRunners

Saturdays 9am at Stow Lake Boathouse; Tuesdays 6:30pm from the Ferry Building; Thursdays 6:30pm from Noe & Market

Stow Lake Boathouse (Golden Gate Park) on Saturdays

The original Frontrunners club, founded in 1974. Groups range from casual walks to long runs, and there's coffee after on Saturdays. Very newcomer-friendly.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to San Francisco FrontRunners

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Schedules are as each group gives them: monthly groups meet once a month, twice-a-month ones in the weeks they name, and seasonal leagues only in season. Times change, so check the group's own site before you go. Something wrong, or a group we're missing? Post in Friends & Community. Nobody pays to be listed.

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