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Same time next week? That's how friends happen.

A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 115 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 16 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.

Not sure how to start? Read How to make gay friends as an adult, then pick one thing here and go three times.

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Cities sorted by distance from Columbus, OH (detected)

16 groups across 16 cities · Meets on a Wednesday (2 only once a month)

Chicago

2 groups · 278 miThis week →City guide →
Chorus

Windy City Gay Chorus

Wednesday rehearsals 7:30–10pm during the season; joining requires an audition

Windy City Performing Arts, Lakeview (office at 3656 N Halsted St)

A tenor/bass chorus and one of the oldest LGBTQ+ choruses in the US, with holiday, spring and summer concerts. Auditions are welcoming, and you don't need to be a pro.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Windy City Gay Chorus

Swim team

Chicago Smelts

Coached practices most weekday evenings plus Saturday mornings, at Gill Park and Sheridan Park

Gill Park (Lakeview) and Sheridan Park

An LGBTQ+ Masters swim team for everyone from returning lap swimmers to competitors. The coaching is friendly, and there's a lively social side.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Chicago Smelts

Philadelphia

1 group · 415 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

Sober & Gay (AA)

Tue–Sun 8:30–9:30pm

Church of the Holy Trinity basement, 1904 Walnut St (Rittenhouse)

A long-running LGBTQ+ recovery meeting held six nights a week. The same space also hosts a 10:30pm 'Night Owl' meeting and Crystal Meth Anonymous at 7:15pm.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Sober & Gay (AA)

Atlanta

2 groups · 434 miThis week →City guide →
Swim team

Atlanta Rainbow Trout

Tue 7am & 7:30pm, Wed/Thu 7:30pm, Sun 10:30am; free trial available

McAuley Aquatic Center, Georgia Tech (Midtown)

Atlanta's gay-friendly masters swim, water polo and tri club. Ask for a free trial practice. You just need to be able to swim freestyle.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Atlanta Rainbow Trout

New York City

3 groups · 477 miThis week →City guide →
Dance

SCUFF Line Dancing & Two-Stepping

Wednesdays 7–11pm

Playhouse, 100A 7th Ave S (West Village)

A weekly queer country night with line dancing and two-stepping. All skill levels are welcome, so it's a good one to try even if you've never danced before.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to SCUFF Line Dancing & Two-Stepping

Book club

Gay Men's Book Club (Brooklyn Pride Center)

Last Wednesday of the month, 6:30pm Monthly

Next: Wed, Oct 28

Brooklyn Pride Center, 1561 Bedford Ave (Crown Heights)

A monthly club reading gay fiction and nonfiction, with an eye on friendship as much as books. No registration needed, so you can drop in for any month's pick.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Gay Men's Book Club (Brooklyn Pride Center)

Boston

2 groups · 641 miThis week →City guide →
Run club

Frontrunners Boston – Weeknight Runs

Mon 6:30pm Davis Sq (Somerville); Wed 6:30pm outside Stony Brook T (JP)

Davis Square, Somerville / Jamaica Plain

Casual after-work group runs. First-timers should check the club's Facebook group first, especially in winter.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Frontrunners Boston – Weeknight Runs

New Orleans

1 group · 798 miThis week →City guide →

Miami & Fort Lauderdale

1 group · 982 miThis week →City guide →

San Diego

1 group · 1,952 miThis week →City guide →
Sports

San Diego Armada Rugby – Practice

Mondays and Wednesdays 7:30–9:30pm

Robb Field, 2525 Bacon St, Ocean Beach

An LGBTQ+ rugby union club where everyone is welcome and there are no tryouts. Most of its players had never played before joining, and you can practice for free before deciding whether to pay dues.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to San Diego Armada Rugby – Practice

Los Angeles

2 groups · 1,979 miThis week →City guide →
Run club

Los Angeles Frontrunners

Six weekly fun runs/walks: Tue/Wed/Thu evenings, Tue/Sat/Sun mornings; see site for meeting spots

Various; Griffith Park is a regular home base

LA's long-running LGBTQ+ run and walk club, celebrating 45 years. Every pace is welcome, and walkers are part of every outing.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Los Angeles Frontrunners

Volunteering

LA LGBT Center volunteering

Start with the info session (4th Wednesday monthly, 6–7:30pm), then book shifts such as the Senior Pantry Monthly

Pride Hall, 1125 N McCadden Pl (Hollywood)

Volunteer at one of the world's largest LGBTQ+ centers. Roles range from food pantry shifts to events, and you only need to attend the info session first.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to LA LGBT Center volunteering

Seattle

1 group · 2,008 miThis week →City guide →
Run club

Seattle Frontrunners

Year-round: Monday Mini-Runs, Wednesday Night and Saturday Morning runs; Tuesday track Mar–Nov; trail run first Wednesday

Capitol Hill area (see club runs page for meeting spots)

An LGBTQIA+ running and walking club that welcomes walkers and all paces. Easy to try once with no commitment.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Seattle Frontrunners

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