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Same time next week? That's how friends happen.

A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 115 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 16 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.

Not sure how to start? Read How to make gay friends as an adult, then pick one thing here and go three times.

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Cities sorted by distance from Columbus, OH (detected)

14 groups across 16 cities · Meets on a Monday (4 only once a month)

Chicago

1 group · 278 miThis week →City guide →
Swim team

Chicago Smelts

Coached practices most weekday evenings plus Saturday mornings, at Gill Park and Sheridan Park

Gill Park (Lakeview) and Sheridan Park

An LGBTQ+ Masters swim team for everyone from returning lap swimmers to competitors. The coaching is friendly, and there's a lively social side.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Chicago Smelts

Washington, DC

1 group · 326 miThis week →City guide →
Book club

Queer Book Club (DC LGBTQ+ Community Center)

Fourth Monday monthly, online via Zoom (email the Center for the link) Monthly

Next: Mon, Oct 26

Online (Zoom)

A monthly discussion of queer books by queer authors, run by the DC Center. It's virtual, so it's an easy one to try from home.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Queer Book Club (DC LGBTQ+ Community Center)

Philadelphia

3 groups · 415 miThis week →City guide →
Game night

William Way Community Mondays: Game Night

First Monday monthly, 6–8pm Monthly

Next: Mon, Nov 2

St. Luke & The Epiphany, 330 S 13th St (Gayborhood)

A low-stakes night of board games, cards and trivia run by the William Way LGBT Center. Bring a favorite game if you like. 18+.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to William Way Community Mondays: Game Night

New York City

1 group · 477 miThis week →City guide →
Chorus

New York City Gay Men's Chorus

Rehearsals Mondays 7–10pm; new members usually join in Jan or Sep after an audition

Chelsea

A big, warm chorus with a full concert season. You don't need formal training, but you do need to audition. Non-singers can join as associate members and help out behind the scenes.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to New York City Gay Men's Chorus

Boston

1 group · 641 miThis week →City guide →
Run club

Frontrunners Boston – Weeknight Runs

Mon 6:30pm Davis Sq (Somerville); Wed 6:30pm outside Stony Brook T (JP)

Davis Square, Somerville / Jamaica Plain

Casual after-work group runs. First-timers should check the club's Facebook group first, especially in winter.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Frontrunners Boston – Weeknight Runs

New Orleans

2 groups · 798 miThis week →City guide →
Social

NOAGE Walking Group

Mondays 6pm; canceled in bad weather

Audubon Zoo, Magazine St entrance (Uptown)

A casual weekly walk through Audubon Park run by New Orleans Advocates for LGBTQ+ Elders. Gentle pace, all ages welcome.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to NOAGE Walking Group

San Diego

1 group · 1,952 miThis week →City guide →
Sports

San Diego Armada Rugby – Practice

Mondays and Wednesdays 7:30–9:30pm

Robb Field, 2525 Bacon St, Ocean Beach

An LGBTQ+ rugby union club where everyone is welcome and there are no tryouts. Most of its players had never played before joining, and you can practice for free before deciding whether to pay dues.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to San Diego Armada Rugby – Practice

Los Angeles

2 groups · 1,979 miThis week →City guide →
Chorus

Gay Men's Chorus of Los Angeles

Monday night rehearsals during the season; auditions reopened Sept 2026

First Congregational Church of Los Angeles (Koreatown/Westlake)

One of the world's best-known gay choruses, with three big concerts a year. Joining requires an audition, and it's a big, welcoming community.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Gay Men's Chorus of Los Angeles

Dance

Stud Country

1st & 3rd Mondays and Thursdays, 8pm–midnight, with lessons at 8:30 and 10pm; check the venue for the night

Los Globos (3040 Sunset Blvd, Silver Lake) and The Paramount (2708 E Cesar Chavez Ave, Boyle Heights)

LA's beloved queer line-dancing party. Each night starts with lessons from teachers on stage, so total beginners pick it up fast. 21+.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Stud Country

Seattle

2 groups · 2,008 miThis week →City guide →
Run club

Seattle Frontrunners

Year-round: Monday Mini-Runs, Wednesday Night and Saturday Morning runs; Tuesday track Mar–Nov; trail run first Wednesday

Capitol Hill area (see club runs page for meeting spots)

An LGBTQIA+ running and walking club that welcomes walkers and all paces. Easy to try once with no commitment.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Seattle Frontrunners

Chorus

Seattle Men's Chorus

Monday rehearsals 6:30pm during the season, plus one Saturday per concert cycle; auditions each September

Seattle First Baptist Church (First Hill)

One of the largest gay men's choruses in the country, performing a big holiday tour each December. Auditions are held each fall.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Seattle Men's Chorus

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