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A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 160 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 23 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.

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11 groups across 23 cities · Swim teams

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Boston LANES (Liquid Assets New England Swimming)

Tue 7pm, Wed/Thu 7:15pm, Sat 9:30am, Sun 11am

BCYF Mason Pool (Roxbury) & South End Fitness Center

Boston's LGBTQ+ masters swim team, with coached workouts and a friendly crowd. Confirm practice times with the team before your first swim.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Boston LANES (Liquid Assets New England Swimming)

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Denver Squid (Swimming Queers United in Denver)

Masters swim and water polo practices through the week; pool times have moved, so check the team's site

Denver and Lakewood pools

A queer masters swim and water polo club for adults 18 and up of any orientation or gender identity. Beginners are welcome, your first two practices are free, and drop-ins are $12 after that, with financial help available.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Denver Squid (Swimming Queers United in Denver)

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Different Strokes Swim Team (DSST)

Sundays 9:45am (Kroc); Mondays 7:15pm (Coronado); Tuesdays 6pm (City Heights); Wednesdays 7pm (Kroc); Fridays 7pm (Kroc); Saturdays 10:30am (Coronado)

Kroc Center, 6753 University Ave (Rolando); Brian Bent Memorial Aquatics Complex, Coronado; City Heights Swim Center

An LGBTQIA+ masters swim club that has been in the water since 1985 and takes adult swimmers of every level. There are six coached practices a week, and people often get food together in Hillcrest afterwards. Some practices need you to register ahead.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Different Strokes Swim Team (DSST)

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SF Tsunami Aquatics

Coached Masters swim (and artistic swimming) practices through the week; first drop-in is free

San Francisco pools (see club schedule)

An LGBTQ+ Masters swim club for every level, from competitive swimmers to people who just want a social workout. Your first practice is free.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to SF Tsunami Aquatics

Schedules are as each group gives them: monthly groups meet once a month, twice-a-month ones in the weeks they name, and seasonal leagues only in season. Times change, so check the group's own site before you go. Something wrong, or a group we're missing? Post in Friends & Community. Nobody pays to be listed.

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