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A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 160 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 23 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.

Not sure how to start? Read How to make gay friends as an adult, then pick one thing here and go three times.

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17 groups across 23 cities · Choruses

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Twin Cities Gay Men's Chorus

Rehearsals Tuesdays 7–9:30pm; next audition Dec 8 2026

Hennepin Avenue United Methodist Church, 511 Groveland Ave (Loring Park)

One of the country's biggest gay men's choruses, with more than 160 voices on stage at Orchestra Hall. Singers rehearse every Tuesday and join through auditions a few times a year. Or just go: Slay Bells Ring is at Orchestra Hall on Nov 22.

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Turtle Creek Chorale

Weekly rehearsals during the season; prospective singers use the 'Sing With Us' form

Offices at Sammons Center for the Arts, 3630 Harry Hines Blvd

Dallas's renowned gay men's chorus, now in its 46th season, with holiday concerts Dec 10–14, 2026. Sing with them or go see a show.

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Phoenix Gay Men's Chorus

Rehearsals Tuesdays 7–9pm; auditions on Tuesdays in July and August

Parsons Center for Health & Wellness, 1101 N Central Ave (downtown)

A chorus in its 36th season, with a holiday concert and a season finale each year. New singers join through a 10-minute audition in July or August: a range check, some pitch matching and clapping rhythms, and the national anthem. Or just go to a concert.

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San Diego Gay Men's Chorus

Rehearsals Mondays 7–10pm (not on Monday holidays); new singers audition before a season

United Church of Christ, 3900 Cleveland Ave (Hillcrest)

A big chorus of gay, bi and queer men that rehearses every week and puts on full shows through the year. New singers come to an info night and a short audition, then commit to the season. Or just go to a show: Jingle 2026 is Dec 12–13 at the Magnolia in El Cajon.

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Schedules are as each group gives them: monthly groups meet once a month, twice-a-month ones in the weeks they name, and seasonal leagues only in season. Times change, so check the group's own site before you go. Something wrong, or a group we're missing? Post in Friends & Community. Nobody pays to be listed.

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