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A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 160 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 23 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.

Not sure how to start? Read How to make gay friends as an adult, then pick one thing here and go three times.

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13 groups across 23 cities · Book clubs

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Gay Men's Book Group – Chicago

Third Tuesday of each month, 7–9pm (holidays can shift the date) Monthly

Next: Tue, Nov 17

Center on Halsted, 3656 N Halsted St (Lakeview/Northalsted)

Chicago's longest-running gay men's book group. It's free and open to all ages, and it reads gay-themed fiction and nonfiction. Drop in for one book or come every month.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Gay Men's Book Group – Chicago

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Gay Men's Book Club (Brooklyn Pride Center)

Last Wednesday of the month, 6:30pm Monthly

Next: Wed, Oct 28

Brooklyn Pride Center, 1561 Bedford Ave (Crown Heights)

A monthly club reading gay fiction and nonfiction, with an eye on friendship as much as books. No registration needed, so you can drop in for any month's pick.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Gay Men's Book Club (Brooklyn Pride Center)

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LGBTQ+ Themed Book Club at The Center on Colfax

1st & 4th Saturdays, 10:30am–12:30pm Twice a month

Next: Sat, Oct 24

The Center on Colfax, 1301 E Colfax Ave (Capitol Hill)

A themed book club at The Center: pick a book on the month's theme and tell the group about it, so nobody has to slog through a pick they don't like. A relaxed Saturday morning way to find new authors and meet people.

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Gay Men's Book Club (Mission Hills-Hillcrest/Knox Library)

First Tuesday monthly, 6pm Monthly

Next: Tue, Nov 3

Mission Hills-Hillcrest/Knox Library, 215 W Washington St (Mission Hills)

A free library book club that reads a book with gay themes each month, mostly novels and memoirs. Past picks run from The Picture of Dorian Gray to Less. Parking under the library is free with validation.

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Gay Men's Book Club (Mission Hills-Hillcrest/Knox Library)

Schedules are as each group gives them: monthly groups meet once a month, twice-a-month ones in the weeks they name, and seasonal leagues only in season. Times change, so check the group's own site before you go. Something wrong, or a group we're missing? Post in Friends & Community. Nobody pays to be listed.

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