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108 hotels, guesthouses and resorts in 27 destinations: gay-owned guesthouses, beach-town classics, and city hotels in the gayborhood. Whether you're traveling with a boyfriend, a husband or the group chat, nobody here will ask “two beds?”

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Provincetown, MA

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Brass Key Guesthouse

Bradford Street, town center

A polished adults-only (21+) compound a block up from Commercial Street, built around an infinity-edge pool and hot tub. Suits couples and friends who want a quiet, well-kept base with the bars a short walk away; the hotel describes itself as gay-operated.

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Fire Island, NY

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The Madison Fire Island Pines

Fire Island Pines, near the harbor

A small boutique guesthouse a minute from the ferry and the ocean, with a heated pool, roof deck, and sun decks. The most comfortable hotel-style option in the Pines for a weekend of Low Tea and beach days.

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Guerneville, CA

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Dawn Ranch

Hwy 116, just west of town

A 22-acre riverside property with cabins, chalets, cottages and tents, plus a spa, a good restaurant and private river access. It's the splurge for a slow weekend of food and wine.

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Miami Beach, FL

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The Setai Miami Beach

Collins Avenue at 20th Street, beachfront

A quiet, polished oceanfront hotel for couples who want a serious splurge. The 12th Street beach scene is a pleasant walk south along the sand.

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New York, NY

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Hotel Chelsea

Chelsea, 222 W 23rd St

The landmark artists' hotel, where many writers and musicians once lived, reopened in 2022 after a long restoration. A splurge with a lot of history, right in the middle of Chelsea.

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Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

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Hacienda San Ángel

Centro (Gringo Gulch)

Twelve adults-only suites in a group of historic townhouses above the old town, with gardens, a pool and colonial-style rooms. It is quiet and romantic, about a 15–20 minute walk from the Zona Romántica.

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Mykonos, Greece

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Cavo Tagoo

Agios Stefanos coast road, just north of Mykonos Town

A clifftop five-star with a long infinity pool and sunset views, a short drive from town. It suits couples or anyone celebrating something who wants design and calm by day, with Chora's nightlife a quick taxi away.

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Sitges, Spain

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ME Sitges Terramar

Passeig Marítim, Terramar end

A design-led seafront hotel with a pool looking over the Mediterranean and a spa. It sits at the quieter western end of the promenade, so the bars are a longer beach walk or a short taxi away. Good for couples who want a resort feel.

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Tel Aviv, Israel

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Carlton Tel Aviv

Hotel strip on the seafront, near the marina

A polished beachfront hotel with a rooftop pool, a short walk along the promenade from Hilton Beach. Good if you want a full-service hotel and sea views, with Dizengoff's cafes a few minutes inland.

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Berlin, Germany

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Hotel Palace Berlin

City West (Budapester Straße, by the Zoo and KaDeWe)

A large five-star hotel next to the Zoo with an 800 m² spa that includes an indoor pool and several saunas. It's about a 20-minute walk or one short U-Bahn ride from Nollendorfplatz. The hotel lists membership in the Berliner Queer-Bündnis, a local queer-inclusion alliance.

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Amsterdam, Netherlands

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Pulitzer Amsterdam

Prinsengracht (Jordaan edge, near Westermarkt)

Twenty-five restored 17th- and 18th-century canal houses joined into one hotel. It's a few minutes' walk from the Homomonument at Westermarkt. It's a romantic splurge for couples who want old-Amsterdam rooms.

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Sofitel Legend The Grand Amsterdam

Old Centre (Oudezijds Voorburgwal 197)

A grand historic hotel in the old center with an indoor heated pool, sauna and hammam, plus a garden terrace. It's a short walk from the bars on Zeedijk and Warmoesstraat. Pick it if you want a quiet, upscale retreat in the busiest part of town.

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The Soho Hotel

Soho (Richmond Mews, off Dean Street)

A 96-room Firmdale hotel on a quiet mews between Dean Street and Wardour Street, with colorful Kit Kemp interiors and its own screening rooms. Soho's bars and theatres are steps away, but your room stays calm.

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Ham Yard Hotel

Soho (near Piccadilly Circus)

A design-led hotel on its own courtyard at the south edge of Soho, with a rooftop terrace and a 1950s bowling alley in the basement. It's a good splurge for groups of friends or a special-occasion trip.

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Montreal, Canada

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Hotel William Gray

Old Montreal (Place Jacques-Cartier)

A luxury boutique hotel in restored historic buildings overlooking Place Jacques-Cartier, with two rooftop terraces and a spa. It's about 20 minutes' walk from the Village and suits couples who want a splurge in the old city.

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Cape Town, South Africa

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Gorgeous George

City Bowl (St George's Mall)

A 33-room design hotel made from two restored heritage buildings in the city centre, with concrete-and-steel interiors, handpicked furniture and local art, plus an on-site restaurant, Gigi. De Waterkant is a short ride away.

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Bangkok, Thailand

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SO/ Bangkok

Sathorn / Lumphini

A playful design hotel overlooking Lumphini Park, with rooms themed on the five elements and a rooftop glass-walled pool. It has a long history of hosting gay events. Silom Soi 2 and 4 are a ten-minute walk.

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