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A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 115 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 16 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.

Not sure how to start? Read How to make gay friends as an adult, then pick one thing here and go three times.

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9 groups across 16 cities · Sober & recovery

More ideas, including coffee meetups and how to do a bar night without drinking: Sober nights out.

Chicago

1 group · 278 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

Queer Sober Social

Third Sunday of each month, 2pm Monthly

Next: Sun, Nov 15

Eli Tea Bar, 5507 N Clark St (Andersonville)

A casual, unstructured hangout for LGBTQIA+ folks who are sober or sober-curious. It's a social group, not a recovery program, so you can just come for tea and conversation.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Queer Sober Social

Washington, DC

1 group · 326 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

The Triangle Club (LGBTQ+ 12-step meetings)

Meetings every day, e.g. Sun 11am & Mon 7:15pm gay/lesbian open AA; full list on site

1638 R St NW #120 (Dupont Circle)

DC's LGBTQ+ recovery clubhouse since 1990, hosting 35+ AA, CMA and other 12-step meetings a week. Open meetings welcome anyone curious about sobriety.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to The Triangle Club (LGBTQ+ 12-step meetings)

Philadelphia

1 group · 415 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

Sober & Gay (AA)

Tue–Sun 8:30–9:30pm

Church of the Holy Trinity basement, 1904 Walnut St (Rittenhouse)

A long-running LGBTQ+ recovery meeting held six nights a week. The same space also hosts a 10:30pm 'Night Owl' meeting and Crystal Meth Anonymous at 7:15pm.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Sober & Gay (AA)

Atlanta

1 group · 434 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

Galano Club (LGBTQ+ recovery)

Multiple 12-step meetings daily, e.g. Wed 8pm LGBTQ+ AA discussion

585 Dutch Valley Rd NE (Morningside/Ansley)

Atlanta's LGBTQ-affirming recovery clubhouse, hosting AA, Al-Anon and other meetings plus sober fellowship. Every group meeting there must explicitly welcome LGBTQ people.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Galano Club (LGBTQ+ recovery)

Miami & Fort Lauderdale

1 group · 982 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

Lambda South (LGBTQ+ 12-step meetings)

Daily meetings, e.g. Sun 10am, 12:15pm & 7pm open AA; CMA Mon & Fri 7pm

1231-A E Las Olas Blvd (Fort Lauderdale)

A long-running LGBTQ+ recovery clubhouse with AA and CMA meetings throughout the week. Open meetings welcome anyone exploring sobriety.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Lambda South (LGBTQ+ 12-step meetings)

Houston

1 group · 994 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

Recovery Dharma Queers

Saturdays 6:30–7:45pm (Oct 10 & 24 2026 listed; check the calendar)

The Montrose Center, 401 Branard St

A meditation-based recovery meeting for queer folks, built on Buddhist practice rather than the 12 steps. Welcoming to anyone exploring sobriety.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Recovery Dharma Queers

Austin

1 group · 1,067 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

LGBTQ+ AA at the Austin Galano Club

LGBTQ+-focused 12-step meetings each week; check the club's meeting schedule for days and times

Austin Galano Club

Recurring LGBTQ+-focused recovery meetings at Austin's long-time sober clubhouse. A supportive place if you're sober or thinking about it.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to LGBTQ+ AA at the Austin Galano Club

Denver

1 group · 1,163 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

Queer & Sober Denver

Weekly, 7–8pm

The Center on Colfax, 1301 E Colfax Ave

A weekly sober social that opens with a low-key activity to break the ice. For anyone sober or sober-curious.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Queer & Sober Denver

San Francisco

1 group · 2,110 miThis week →City guide →
Sober & recovery

Castro Country Club

Open daily as a sober hangout, with meetings and fellowship

Castro

A sober community space for the LGBTQ+ recovery community, with coffee, games, meetings and friendly faces. A good bar alternative in the heart of the Castro.

Official site

Checked Oct 2026Report a change to Castro Country Club

Schedules are as each group gives them: monthly groups meet once a month, and seasonal leagues only in season. Times change, so check the group's own site before you go. Something wrong, or a group we're missing? Post in Friends & Community. Nobody pays to be listed.

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