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A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 196 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 25 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.

Not sure how to start? Read How to make gay friends as an adult, then pick one thing here and go three times.

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1 group in San Diego · Book clubs

Book club

Gay Men's Book Club (Mission Hills-Hillcrest/Knox Library)

First Tuesday monthly, 6pm Monthly

Next: Tue, Nov 3

Mission Hills-Hillcrest/Knox Library, 215 W Washington St (Mission Hills)

A free library book club that reads a book with gay themes each month, mostly novels and memoirs. Past picks run from The Picture of Dorian Gray to Less. Parking under the library is free with validation.

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Schedules are as each group gives them: monthly groups meet once a month, twice-a-month ones in the weeks they name, and seasonal leagues only in season. Times change, so check the group's own site before you go. Something wrong, or a group we're missing? Post in Friends & Community. Nobody pays to be listed.

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