Groups & leagues

Same time next week? That's how friends happen.

A bar is great for a night out, but it's hard to get past small talk over loud music. A run club, a chorus or a game night gives you something to do together and the same faces every week, so by the third visit people know your name. Here are 196 LGBTQ+ clubs, leagues and regular nights in 25 cities, each with the month we last checked it was still running.

Not sure how to start? Read How to make gay friends as an adult, then pick one thing here and go three times.

1 group in San Diego · Swim teams · Meets on a Monday

San Diego

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Swim team

Different Strokes Swim Team (DSST)

Sundays 9:45am (Kroc); Mondays 7:15pm (Coronado); Tuesdays 6pm (City Heights); Wednesdays 7pm (Kroc); Fridays 7pm (Kroc); Saturdays 10:30am (Coronado)

Kroc Center, 6753 University Ave (Rolando); Brian Bent Memorial Aquatics Complex, Coronado; City Heights Swim Center

An LGBTQIA+ masters swim club that has been in the water since 1985 and takes adult swimmers of every level. There are six coached practices a week, and people often get food together in Hillcrest afterwards. Some practices need you to register ahead.

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Schedules are as each group gives them: monthly groups meet once a month, twice-a-month ones in the weeks they name, and seasonal leagues only in season. Times change, so check the group's own site before you go. Something wrong, or a group we're missing? Post in Friends & Community. Nobody pays to be listed.

Same time next week? That's how friends happen.

San Diego

Different Strokes Swim Team (DSST)

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