Look after yourself (and each other)Harm reduction, in plain English
PrEP
Daily pills or long-acting shots that are very effective at preventing HIV. Every city guide lists where to get it, including free and low-cost clinics.
DoxyPEP
One dose of doxycycline within 72 hours after sex lowers the chance of syphilis, chlamydia and gonorrhea. US guidance recommends it for gay and bi men who've had one of those in the past year. Ask your clinic.
PEP
Think you were exposed to HIV? Start PEP within 72 hours, and sooner is better. Go to an urgent care, ER or sexual health clinic and ask for it by name.
Test regularly
If you're active, every three months is the usual rhythm. Many clinics do walk-in or at-home kits.
G (GHB/GBL)
Never mix it with alcohol, and space doses out: the difference between enough and too much is tiny. If someone can't be woken, put them on their side and call emergency services (911 in the US, 112 in Europe). Stay with them.
Consent
Ask. A no, a pulled-back hand or no response means no. Someone who's very drunk or high can't consent. Staff are there to help if anyone makes you uncomfortable.
Practical stuff
Bring ID, leave valuables at home, use the lockers, drink water, and tell a friend where you're going. Laws and enforcement differ between countries, so read up before you travel.
24/7 members-only men's bathhouse with a seasonal outdoor heated pool, whirlpool, steam room, dry sauna, circuit gym, two lounges, a media room and private rooms. Free on-site parking.
Entry: Membership required (one-time or 6-month, as at other Club locations); valid government ID.
Church-Wellesley Village · 105 Carlton Street, Toronto, ON M5B 1M1
Multi-level men's bathhouse a few blocks from the Village, with lockers and private rooms of several sizes. Open 24 hours, with discounted early-afternoon, happy-hour and late-night time slots.
Entry: Lockers from about C$23 and rooms from C$35 for 8 hours (higher at weekends). Optional annual membership; non-members pay a C$5 key and towel deposit. Student discount with government ID.
U Street Corridor · 1357-B U St NW, Washington, DC 20009
Multi-level leather and kink bar that opened in January 2025 as the successor to the long-running DC Eagle, with gear nights, themed parties and DJs. Busiest late on Fridays and Saturdays.
Entry: 21+ with photo ID. Wed–Thu 7pm–2am, Fri–Sat 7pm–3am, Sun 4pm–10pm, closed Mon–Tue (per Out x Out). Cover varies by event.
Gayborhood / Center City · 1220 Chancellor St (at Camac), Philadelphia, PA 19107
Gay men's bathhouse in a converted Center City row house with lockers, private rooms, a sauna, a steam room and lounge areas. Open around the clock; later evenings and weekend nights are the busiest.
Entry: Open 24/7/365. Lockers $24; rooms $32-$57 (single, single with TV, double, VIP), plus membership and towel fees (clubphilly.com, Oct 2026).
24-hour men's bathhouse with an outdoor pool and hot tub, steam room, dry sauna, full gym and on-site massage; lockers through to themed suites. Recently renovated.
Entry: Membership-based (day or 6-month membership plus rental). Bring ID.
Midtown East · 227 E 56th St, 6th Floor, New York, NY 10022
Long-running private men's club, open 24/7, with a dry sauna, steam room, showers, a TV lounge, lockers and private rooms in four sizes. Standard stays are four hours, with a cheaper late-night stay on weeknights.
Entry: Members only (18+, valid government photo ID). Temporary membership $20 (5 visits / 30 days) or annual $50; locker or room rental on top.
Le Village · Rue Sainte-Catherine Est, Le Village, Montréal
Long-running male strip club with dancers every day from mid-afternoon, a full bar and private dance booths. 'Daddy's Corner' runs 15:00-19:00 daily; women are welcome at all times.
Entry: 18+. Open daily 15:00-03:00. Private dances $20 per song.
Long-running, no-frills downtown gay bar with a small stage for male dancers (listed Wednesday through Sunday from about 8 pm) plus drag shows and social nights. Weekend nights draw the biggest crowds.
Entry: Bar hours about 4 pm-2 am daily (Yelp, June 2026). 21+ with photo ID (Minnesota bar). Cover not documented; tipping dancers expected.
Old East Dallas / Deep Ellum edge · 2616 Swiss Ave
24-hour men's bathhouse on Swiss Ave since 1974, centered on a walled outdoor pool with a sun deck, hot tub, dry sauna, steam room and gym; lockers or private rooms.
Entry: Membership required; day passes available at the door with valid ID.
Oakland Park / near Wilton Manors · 2650 E Oakland Park Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33306
One of the country's longest-running bathhouses (since 1976), open 24/7 with a renovated wet area, hot tub, steam room, dry sauna, video lounges, lockers and private rooms. Weekly leather and bear nights.
Entry: Men 18+ with government ID. Cash only (ATM in lobby). Rentals in 8-hour blocks.
Wilton Manors (Wilton Drive) · 1508 NE 4th Avenue, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304
Long-running Levi, leather and uniform cruise bar with a back patio bar, a bootblack station and an in-house leather shop. Busiest on weekend nights and at its monthly themed dance parties.
Entry: 21+. No cover. Open daily from 09:00 to 02:00 (03:00 Fri-Sat). Leather and uniform dress encouraged.
Long-running 24-hour men's bathhouse (open as the Club Baths since 1972) with a gym, steam room, dry sauna, outdoor heated pool, sundeck, private rooms and a video lounge.
Entry: Membership required: one-time $12 weekday / $15 weekend or $42 for six months, plus a locker or room rental (lockers from $18). Valid government photo ID required. Cash, Venmo or CashApp only; no cards.
24/7 men's bathhouse with a heated outdoor pool and sundeck, full gym, steam room, whirlpool, dry sauna and TV lounge; renovated wet and locker areas. Regular free health-testing sessions by local clinics.
Entry: Membership required: one-time $13 or 6-month $40, plus locker ($20) or room ($25–40). Valid government ID required. No alcohol or drugs.
Clothing-optional resort for gay men with a heated pool, 24-hour gym, steam room, dry sauna and jacuzzis, plus a poolside cafe and bar. Pool parties on Wednesdays and Sundays.
Entry: Men only; mainly for registered guests (ask about day passes). Reservations by phone, text or email.
Duval Street · 724 Duval Street, Key West, FL 33040
Big gay bar complex with five bars, live shows and the 'Men of Bourbon' dancers in the evenings, plus a men-only, clothing-optional garden pool and jacuzzi. Check the events calendar for which nights dancers perform.
Entry: 21+ (US bar rules). Pool and jacuzzi area men only.
Leather and Levi's bar, reopened at this location in March 2022, with a weekly Friday leather night, bear nights and monthly themed nights. Mostly men, bears and leather fans.
Entry: 21+ with ID. Tue–Sun 8pm–2am, closed Mon (per Out x Out). Gear welcome but not required.
West Phoenix (I-17 corridor) · 1517 S Black Canyon Hwy, Phoenix, AZ 85009
24-hour men's bathhouse with a pool and saltwater whirlpool, dry sauna, steam room, full gym, sun decks, video lounges and private rooms. Weekly themed nights.
Entry: Membership or daily pass required. Bring ID.
Multi-level club-sauna with steam room, dry sauna, jacuzzi, maze and a bar, plus DJs and a themed party each month. Phones are not allowed inside.
Entry: Entry kit includes locker, towel and sandals; a private-room package (3 hours) is also sold. Hours vary: Wed–Fri evenings, all day Sat–Sun, closed Mon–Tue (per Out x Out). Bring ID.
San Rafael · Manuel María Contreras 11, San Rafael, Cuauhtémoc, 06470 CDMX
Old-school local bathhouse with steam rooms, a dry sauna, showers and massage. Plainer than the Zona Rosa saunas; quiet on weekday afternoons and busiest on weekend mornings.
Entry: Low-cost entry. Opens 6am daily. Bring small bills for towel rental and tips.
Hipódromo (Condesa) · Av. Insurgentes Sur 357, Hipódromo, Cuauhtémoc, 06100 CDMX
Men-only leather cruise bar inspired by Tom of Finland and open since the mid-1990s, with a dim interior, a darkroom at the back and a known opera-and-go-go show. Mostly local men in their 30s and 40s.
Entry: Men only. Tue–Sun from 9pm. Cover on some nights (Tuesdays include drink tickets).
Commercial Center (off the Strip) · 953 E Sahara Ave, Suite A19, Las Vegas, NV 89104
Men's bathhouse open 24/7 since the mid-1990s, with a heated indoor pool, jacuzzi, steam and dry saunas, gym, video room, café and about fifty private rooms; towels included.
Entry: For men and those who identify as men; ID required. Membership included in entry price.
East Flamingo · 2225 E Flamingo Rd, Building 2, Las Vegas, NV 89119
Multi-level 24/7 men's club about five minutes from the Strip, with a sauna, lounges, communal and private showers, private cubicles and dimly lit areas; no alcohol served. Free parking out front.
Entry: Members only; 18+ with government photo ID. No photography. Some designated all-gender theme nights.
Zona Romántica · Basilio Badillo 283, Zona Romántica, Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco
Multi-level bear and leather bar with go-go dancers, a gear shop and themed nights through the week. Busiest late on weekends and during Bear Week, Pride and New Year's week.
Entry: Strictly 18+, valid photo ID required. Cover varies by night; ticketed special events. Dress codes apply on some themed nights. Check it has reopened after Hurricane Simon (October 2026).
Cathedral City · 68300 Gay Resort Dr, Cathedral City, CA 92234
Large clothing-optional gay men's resort hotel with a pool, two spas, a steam room and an on-site bar and restaurant; resort day passes available. Busiest on weekends and during Palm Springs event weeks.
Entry: 21+, physical government photo ID (digital IDs not accepted). Day passes via the site; pre-registration available. Substance-free property.
South Palm Springs (Industrial Pl) · 541 Industrial Pl E, Palm Springs, CA 92264
The valley's only men's cruise club, with dark rooms, corridors, private rooms and an outdoor patio with misting fans and a firepit; no pool or sauna. Monthly bear and themed nights.
Entry: Men 18+, government photo ID. No cash (cards/mobile pay). No drugs or alcohol. Closed Mon–Tue; Wed daytime and evening sessions; Fri–Sun 6pm–2am. Non-member weekend entry ~$28, members ~$20.
Two-level Hillcrest bathhouse with a steam room, dry sauna, gym, video lounges and around fifty private rooms. Busiest over the Friday–Monday weekend run. The jacuzzi area was closed for renovation at last check.
Entry: 18+, valid state photo ID listing male. Closed Tue; Wed–Thu noon–4am; open continuously Fri 8am–Mon 4am. No alcohol or drugs; one small bag.
East Hollywood · 4424 Melrose Ave, Los Angeles, CA 90029
24-hour men's bathhouse with a pool and heated jacuzzi, garden area, dry sauna and gym; lockers or private rooms. Regular themed nights and weekday rental specials.
Entry: Private membership club: 6-month membership $25 or one-day $10, plus an 8-hour locker or room rental (from about $32–35). Bring ID.
North Hollywood · 5636 Vineland Ave, North Hollywood, CA 91601
Two-floor men's bathhouse open since 1984 with a dry sauna, steam room, jacuzzi, gym, garden sundeck, 24-hour cafe and 100+ private rooms. Open non-stop Thursday through Monday.
Entry: 18+. Closed Tuesdays and Wednesdays. Check site for current pricing.
Virgil Village / Silver Lake · 3688 Beverly Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90004
Men's private cruise club open since 2000, with dark rooms, a maze, a video room and an outdoor patio; leather and fetish wear is common but regular clothes are fine. Busiest late on Friday and Saturday.
Entry: 18+. Closed Mondays; Tue–Thu 8pm–2am, Fri 8pm–4am, Sat 2pm–4am, Sun 2pm–2am. Memberships available for regulars.
Capitol Hill / Pike-Pine · 1117 Pike St, Seattle, WA 98101
Seattle's long-running members-only gay social club and spa, open 24/7, with a dry sauna, steam room, members lounge, a small theater, showers, lockers and themed private rooms. Gay City runs free HIV/STI testing on site several days a week.
Entry: Members only (day and monthly options). Shower before using the sauna/steam. Bring ID.
Kerns / NE Sandy · 2885 NE Sandy Blvd, Portland, OR 97232
Two-level private men's social club and bathhouse open since 2003; runs 24 hours from Thursday morning to Monday night.
Entry: 18+ with valid government ID. Day pass from $10; 30-day, 6-month and annual memberships. Tue–Wed 10am–midnight; continuous Thu 10am–Mon midnight.
Sober-supportive queer bathhouse with a steam sauna, hot tub, outdoor patio and firepit; open to LGBTQIA2S+ guests, with scheduled men-only nights (e.g. Bear Mondays) alongside events for other groups.
Entry: Check the event calendar for men-only sessions. Mon–Thu 10am–2am; 24 hours Fri 10am–Mon 6am.
Portland's longest-running male strip club (since 1981) with nightly shows in the basement stage room and an upstairs lounge with karaoke; weekly amateur night and Sunday drag.
The Bay Area's main gay bathhouse: a private men's gym, sauna and steam facility open 24 hours, with lockers or private rooms and weekly themed nights.
Entry: Men 18+, valid ID, membership required (purchase at the door).
Long-running San Francisco queer men's social club, at Turk Street since moving from Market Street in 2022. Opens 2pm daily, with themed nights and extra hours around big weekends like Folsom.
Entry: One-time visit about $50, or a 6-month membership (about $15) plus entry. Check the site for the current door policy.
Waterloo · Arch 124, Cornwall Road, London SE1 8XE
London's largest gay sauna, set in railway arches a minute from Waterloo station, with sauna, steam, a bar, private rooms and massage. Open 24 hours, every day of the year.
Entry: 18+. Standard entry £28; under-30s £23 with ID. Maximum stay 18 hours. Room and pod hire extra.
Classic men's cruise bar on the city's oldest gay street, with a bar upstairs and a darkroom area. Open late Thursday to Sunday with DJ and leather or fetish theme nights.
Entry: Men only on regular nights (trans men and non-binary people who identify as men welcome); some theme events are all-gender or women-only. No cover on regular nights. Footwear required; free coat check for those arriving in fetish gear.
Gay sauna popular with a younger crowd, near Noviciado and Plaza de España metro. Has a bar, and massage is available by appointment; open around the clock at weekends.
Entry: Entry about €17 weekdays and €20 weekends and holidays; includes locker, towels and flip-flops. No re-entry on the same ticket. No smoking; drug use leads to removal.
Small, busy bar for bears, chubs, daddies and their admirers in the heart of Chueca, with a back area. Fills up quickly late in the evening, especially at weekends.
Entry: No cover. Open from 19:00 nightly, latest on Friday and Saturday.
The town's gay sauna, on two floors with wet and dry saunas, a small pool, lounge areas and private cabins. Opens in the afternoon and again after midnight, with longer hours in summer.
Entry: Entry about €16-17. Hours change by season; check before going.
Eixample (Gaixample) · Carrer de Casanova 57, 08011 Barcelona
One of Spain's largest gay saunas, over three floors with pool, jacuzzi, sauna, steam, bar and private cabins. Open 24 hours; busiest on weekend mornings after the clubs close.
Entry: 18+ with ID. Entry roughly €20-22; check the official price list.
Eixample · Carrer de la Diputació 46, 08015 Barcelona
Large gay sauna with two pools, a big jacuzzi, steam room, dry sauna, private cabins and a bar that serves food. Open 24 hours; same group as Casanova.
Entry: 18+ with ID. Entry roughly €20-23; check the official price list.
Kreuzberg · Mehringdamm 34, 10961 Berlin (rear courtyard, same building as BKA-Theater)
Large, modern gay sauna with a 90-degree sauna, steam and relaxation areas, a bar and food, plus scheduled sauna infusions every evening. Themed Tuesday evenings and a lively weekend crowd; open around the clock from Friday to Monday morning.
Entry: Men only. Last entry 60 minutes before closing; ticket prices on the official Tickets page.
Long-running bear and fetish-friendly men's bar near Nollendorfplatz with a darkroom area. Friendly, international crowd; drink specials early in the week and busiest late on weekends.
Entry: Ring the doorbell to enter; no cover charge. Men only.
Spacious men's bar open since 1999 with a relaxed, slightly older crowd including leather and bear regulars; has a darkroom area. Opens early evening, with late closing on Fridays and Saturdays and a regular monthly bear party.
Friedrichshain · Am Wriezener Bahnhof, 10243 Berlin (beside Berghain)
Well-known men-only fetish club in the Berghain building, run as themed party nights from Thursday to Sunday. Each night has its own theme and dress code, posted on the website calendar.
Entry: Men only on most nights (some events are for other groups; check the calendar). Dress code varies by night, from no dress code to rubber, sportswear or masks. Doors open in a set window each night, often 21:00-23:00 or 22:00-24:00. Some nights state a no-chems policy.
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